How to chat on a date?

First, the problem of chatting on a date?

1, can you ask the other person's "favorite hobbies"?

In this way, we can learn about girls' hobbies, then grab keywords from the information points replied by girls and choose what we are good at to extend the topic. If you have the same topic as the blind date girl, it is not easy to be silent on the next blind date. ?

2. Can you ask the other person "What flavor of food do you like to eat"?

Asking girls like this can avoid creating embarrassment when ordering food. For example, girls are just losing weight these days, so they can't order too greasy food. Respecting girls can create a harmonious dating atmosphere and leave the image of a gentleman and a warm man for girls. ? If you have a good impression on each other through this blind date, you can please each other according to their preferences in future dating, which is definitely a plus item in the process of pursuing each other. ?

3, you can ask each other's work.

Work is a topic that blind date basically asks. After asking each other, you should also introduce yourself. It's best to talk more about interesting people, interesting things and anecdotes at work, and try to get each other involved in the topic. If you talk about yourself in Kan Kan without considering each other's feelings, girls will label you as "low emotional intelligence". ?

4. Can you ask about each other's travel experience?

Almost everyone is eager to travel. I believe that girls must have been to many places, and they can talk to each other about which cities they have been to, which cities impressed her the most and where they want to travel most. And talking about travel can not only show that you are well informed, but also create an emotional buzz between two people.

Second, what can't be discussed on a date?

1, can't ask about past love history?

Although love history is a matter of concern to many people, it is the most taboo issue on the first blind date. Asking each other's love history directly is asking for privacy, and many boys think that girls who have been in love are playing with a whore because of deep-rooted male chauvinism, which is a typical straight male cancer thinking in male-female communication.

2. Don't ask about married life.

Such questions are only asked by people with low emotional intelligence, not to mention that it is the first time for you two to meet, and you are not sure whether the other person has a good impression on you and is willing to associate with you. Such a problem is beyond your existing relationship.

3. Don't ask girls privacy questions.

Weight is a girl's secret. If a girl has a good figure, she is usually willing to share it with you, but if she is overweight, you hit the girl where it hurts. Moreover, deposit is a very private topic, and asking directly will only make girls lose interest in you instantly.

Don't ask whether you care about the rich or the poor.

Asking this question is weakening your social value. Since girls can come out on blind dates with you, it shows that the relationship between you is likely to be further improved. But if you ask for girls' opinions with such low emotional intelligence, it shows that you are not motivated, capable and unable to bring happiness to girls, then why do girls continue to develop with you?