The daughter-in-law doesn't agree to live with her mother-in-law. When she visited her mother-in-law, her husband angrily called her daughter-in-law cruel. Do you mind her living with her?

How to deal with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is always a problem that every family and marriage must face. When this problem is solved, everyone will naturally be happy and enjoy the happiness brought by marriage. If it is not handled properly, marriage will become an unforgettable pain in a woman's heart, so that when Zhao Hua looks back, she finds that she missed the best time to get married.

Every woman deals with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in a different way. Different methods will naturally lead to different endings. Many women have some hostility towards their mother-in-law when they first get married. This hostility was hearsay before marriage, except for the natural tit-for-tat between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law After all, there are too many examples of unhappy marriage caused by the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and women can't help but guard against it.

However, not all mothers-in-law in the world are "evil mothers-in-law", and some mothers-in-law regard their daughter-in-law as their own daughter. Coincidentally, most daughter-in-law in the world will not be kind to her mother-in-law. Sometimes no matter how well a mother-in-law does, she can't please her daughter-in-law. Even in some cases, if their daughter-in-law still gets along with her mother-in-law, they will make the next judgment that "the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are not easy to get along with."

This idea is reckless. Without in-depth contact with her mother-in-law, it is not only irresponsible for her daughter-in-law, but also irresponsible for her marriage. Getting along well with her mother-in-law will directly affect the happiness of her marriage. In real life, such examples abound, and you need to be cautious when getting along with your mother-in-law.

Some women think they are smart. When they can't get along with their mother-in-law, they simply choose not to get along with their mother-in-law and stay away from her. In the eyes of many women, this way can directly avoid the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. After all, there is no contradiction in not meeting each other, but this way requires the consent of her mother-in-law. If the mother-in-law is abandoned by her daughter-in-law without knowing it, she will naturally have other ideas in her heart, which will also lead to conflicts between her mother-in-law and her daughter-in-law.

Facing the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the best way is always to contact frequently. Only by frequent contact between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can we become more familiar with each other and know each other's bottom line. In getting along, you will naturally control each other well, and you will also eliminate unknown hidden dangers early to prevent hidden dangers from affecting your marriage. Escape can only delay the outbreak of the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law Once it breaks out, the consequences will be enormous.

For her mother-in-law, the way her daughter-in-law treats her will directly affect her opinion of her daughter-in-law. Women should not forget that between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the husband is usually on the mother's side, especially when the mother is wronged. Therefore, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law should be honest with each other and agree with each other in their hearts, so that the "mother-in-law-daughter relationship" can better become a booster rather than a stumbling block to marriage.

Lin Jun received a letter from a fan named "Fang Ran". She was deeply troubled by the "relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law", which has directly affected her marriage with her husband, but strangely, Fang Ran didn't have much contact with her mother-in-law, and even the number of meetings she met could be kept in mind.

"Before I married my husband, my friends told me many stories about my evil mother-in-law. In my friend's dictation, I can't help but have some bad impressions on my mother-in-law. Although my mother-in-law was very kind to me at that time and was very kind every day, I dare not bet. Maybe she was faking it? So, I didn't agree to live with my mother-in-law. I thought this would not cause contradictions between us, but I didn't expect the contradiction to happen so unprepared. " Yan Fang said so.

When Fang Ran gets married, she always pays attention to her mother-in-law's actions. Whether it's wedding etiquette or wedding photos, Fang Ran pays full attention to her mother-in-law. After being instilled with the idea of "evil mother-in-law" by friends, no matter how kind her mother-in-law is in front of others, it has become a deliberate performance of her mother-in-law. At that time, Fang Ran didn't ask himself: "How can I make my mother-in-law so thankless?"

Zhang, her husband, wants to live with her parents after marriage. After all, their lives are too cold and clear. As the saying goes, "there are old people in the family, and there are treasures hidden." Zhang Xu said, "After all, it is good to have an old man at home. You can ask your mother if there is any problem with marriage. " Before deciding this matter, Zhang Xu asked Fang Ran for advice.

"I won't leave after I get married. It's boring to live in a wedding room for two people. I might as well stay at home, so I can take care of my mother. Dad is busy at work, so is mom. We will stay with her. What do you say? " Zhang Xugang say that finish, was Fang Ran decisively refused.

"Two people how good life, free, unrestrained. Their life has just begun, and the original taste is always better. I want to adapt to my wife's role as soon as possible and take care of everything at home. Let's live together. I can't give my mother-in-law two thousand dollars a month. " Although Fang Ran refused, she gave Zhang Xu what she thought was a good way.

Mother-in-law Fang Ran naturally knows what Mr. and Mrs. Zhang Xu are saying, but she has some objections to each other's proposal. After all, it's boring to live alone, but she didn't want to embarrass her daughter-in-law, so she went to Zhang Xu and said, "Don't worry about me. You have been to your husband and wife's life. Don't worry, I can live well alone. Don't worry. "

Zhang Xu was very dissatisfied with each other's behavior. Zhang Xu knew that his mother was good for him, but Fang Ran's attitude of deciding without consulting made him very angry. But after all, his mother also recognized Fang Ran's behavior, so Zhang Xu had to suppress his dissatisfaction and accompany Fang Ran to live in his small home.

It is natural for two people to live in a big family. Because Fang Ran has no job, every day after Zhang Xu goes to work, she stays at home alone. Fang Ran couldn't help feeling lonely and thought, "Why don't you agree with her husband and live with her mother-in-law?" As soon as the idea appeared, it was interrupted by Jean Valjean. On the other hand, she would rather endure loneliness than the injustice caused by the contradiction between her mother-in-law and her daughter-in-law, although the contradiction between her and her mother-in-law did not happen.

As a result, the two women reached a different tacit understanding, the same boredom and loneliness, and began to hate each other in their hearts. Because of loneliness, Fang Ran imposed the culprit on her mother-in-law. On the other hand, if her marriage had no mother-in-law, then she wouldn't be so boring, and her mother-in-law also had some resentment.

Although I have to give my mother-in-law 2000 yuan every month, the money is dispensable to her, because she has no worries about food and clothing, so the money she plays on time every month is a series of cold figures. At her age, what she craves most is actually companionship. Although Fang Ran, her mother-in-law, agreed to this request when she first got married, as time went on, she could not stand the loneliness brought by life more and more.

Mother-in-law Fang Ran was wronged. She knows what her daughter-in-law is guarding against, but she can't tell the bitterness. She wanted a big family to live happily together and give all her leading power to Fang Ran, but this idea was completely destroyed by Fang Ran before it was realized. Lonely old people will do some amazing things to accompany them. Most lonely old people are poor.

"Son, I am in the hospital. The doctor said I need to be hospitalized for a month. Do you think you can come and stay with me and take care of me? " After the accident, Fang Ran's mother-in-law called Zhang Xu decisively. "Mom, is it serious? Tell you what, I'll let Fang Ran accompany you first and let her take care of you. I'll rush to your side when I'm busy. " When Zhang Xu heard that his mother was fine, he breathed a sigh of relief and called Fang Ran.

One hundred people who received the phone call were unhappy and couldn't help being depressed: "It fell in a month? I'm afraid it's not a performance I am really convinced. There are so many troubles. " However, Fang Ran didn't want to be stabbed. If she refuses, she can only swallow it in her stomach. After hanging up the phone, she went to the hospital where her mother-in-law was.

As soon as the "mother-in-law and daughter-in-law" met, what was originally full of words disappeared in an embarrassing atmosphere. Because there is no connection between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, these two women can't help wondering. Although Fang Ran is with her mother-in-law, there are only a handful of words she says every day. Although the old man was somewhat dissatisfied with the other party, he couldn't help but take the initiative to provoke an argument.

Fang Ran was startled by her mother-in-law's active dialogue, and then her anger rose in her heart. The mother-in-law who is waiting for Fang Ran to answer the phone didn't expect Fang Ran to get up and go outside, and refused this conversation. Fang Ran's mother-in-law is very strange, "I didn't blame her. What's wrong with this? " Clay figurine also has three points of anger, always good-natured mother-in-law was angered by Fang Ran's unreasonable success.

Let's get this straight. Fang Ran has shown her thoughts with her own practical actions. Although nothing has been found between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, Fang Ran has taken her fantasy as a fact. Under this idea, the contradiction between her and her mother-in-law became irreconcilable, and her mother-in-law was very angry, but she didn't know why her daughter-in-law treated her like this.

So the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law reached a tacit understanding. Although they seem to get along well, in fact, no one cares about anyone. Mother-in-law Fang Ran is unwell. Although I didn't hurt my bones, I needed help in my daily behavior. When her daughter-in-law arrived, her mother-in-law, Fang Ran, didn't want the nurse to help her or make jokes on others, so she had to do something by herself.

Fang Ran wanted to help her when she saw her mother-in-law's difficulties and the strange eyes of people in the same ward, but because of her face, Fang Ran refused to help her, and her mother-in-law didn't want to "trouble" her daughter-in-law to help her. After all, there is already a gap between the two. When my mother-in-law wanted to go to the toilet and struggled to get up, she accidentally fell under the bed because of too much force. Before Fang Ran could react, this scene was seen by Zhang Xu who came in a hurry.

When Zhang Xu saw it, he was anxious to help his mother. He just wanted to ask what was going on. He saw all the people in the ward looking at his wife, and Fang Ran was speechless at this time, still holding her arm, maintaining her mother-in-law's actions before she fell. Zhang Xu was very angry when she saw this scene. She had no time to ask questions and chose to challenge Fang Ran directly.

"What do I want you to do? I don't know what to do when I see my mother moving. You act like a daughter-in-law. What did I marry you for? If I had known you were in this position, I wouldn't have married you. " When Zhang Xu vented his anger, he heard his mother's cry of "Oh, Oh" and glared at Fang Ran: "You are so cruel."

Although Fang Ran wanted to defend herself, she knew she was out of her mind when she saw other people in the ward looking into her hostile eyes. After all, they saw how she treated her mother-in-law. Just when she didn't know what to do, Fang Ran heard her mother-in-law say, "I didn't blame her, but I was careless. Stop talking about her. "

When Fang Ran heard this, she had an idea. She sarcastically said to her mother-in-law, "Oh, you are really good at acting. Why not be an actor and win a big prize? " Fang Ran's mother-in-law was stunned at this, not only by her, but also by others in the ward. Zhang Xu was about to ask what had happened, but Fang Ran was guilty of not giving Zhang Xu the chance and walked out of the ward with a straight face.

However, Fang Ran said nothing, but everyone else in the ward knew what had happened. Zhang Xu, knowing the ins and outs of the matter, is ready to show his cards to Fang Ran. He was about to get up when his mother caught him. Zhang Xu's mother said, "Don't blame her, don't blame her. We have little contact, so she doesn't know me and I don't know her. It will be fine in the future. She didn't mean it either. Don't be influenced by me. "

After listening to his mother's words, Zhang Xu, whose emotions were about to erupt, poured a pot of cold water on the pledge, and began to regret why he had listened to Fang Ran's advice, which led to today's events. But it's not too late. Whether Fang Ran agrees or not, Zhang Xu will choose to live with her mother this time, and she can't be wronged any more.

Although Ran was still reluctant, Zhang Xu's indifferent eyes from time to time made her give up the idea, but how to get along with her mother-in-law became a difficult problem for her. After all, there has always been a gap between her and her mother-in-law, and Jean Valjean doesn't expect good progress in her relationship with her mother-in-law, although her mother-in-law doesn't care.

There is no contradiction between Fang Ran and her mother-in-law, but the relationship between Fang Ran and her mother-in-law has been difficult to reconcile. Mother-in-law doesn't care, it doesn't mean that Fang Ran doesn't care, or that she can't pass the hurdle in her heart. This "mother-in-law-daughter-in-law contradiction" made Fang Ran not know what to do. Things happened so suddenly that Xin Ran thought, "If you want to alleviate this invisible contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, you can only count on your mother."

Fang Ran's situation is mainly due to her own selfishness. She thought that the mother-in-law in other people's mouth was her own mother-in-law, and she decisively labeled her mother-in-law as "evil mother-in-law" without contact, but this was not the case. Fang Ran's mother-in-law is a good mother-in-law, but Fang Ran knows nothing about it and stubbornly believes that her mother-in-law is her imaginary mother-in-law.

No matter what her mother-in-law looks like, she has to get in-depth contact to get the answer. It's better to face it than to escape. Escape will only hide hidden dangers in the unknown, and she has no solution at all. But she can find hidden dangers in time and solve them face to face, so that the "mother-in-law-daughter relationship" can maintain a healthy rhythm and a better trend, making it a boost to marriage and no longer regretting getting married and sitting down.