My wife is too lazy. How can I change her so that she can learn to do housework?

If your wife is lazy, it will definitely cause your dissatisfaction, but if you want to change her blindly, she must cooperate with you, so you must find out the reason why she is lazy. Some women are lazy from childhood, which is a habit. Many people think that boys are lazy and girls are diligent, but now I gradually realize that it is actually the opposite. Many girls are lazy, while boys are good at housework and cooking. This relationship was spoiled by their families when they were young.

Many families spoil their daughters too much.

I once saw a girl who washed clothes without plugging in the washing machine, just waiting for her mother to visit her once a week, and washed all the clothes, dried them, ironed them, folded them and put them back in the closet. I want to praise her mother. She is really a good worker. These clothes are divided into different categories and carefully marked for the convenience of my daughter. My biggest sigh is that, fortunately, this girl unit is responsible for eating.

If I meet a girl from such a family, I think any theory is useless.

In their view, they have no concept of doing it themselves. Even if there is, it will be lost with the help of parents. They don't want to accept this skill, and they are too lazy to take it for granted. If they want to change this kind of woman, they have to save some energy. I think it's more reliable to find your mother-in-law. Some men are too demanding, but women are omnipotent. If they last a long time, women won't bother them. This rebellious mentality.

Suppose a person is a neat freak. In the eyes of ordinary people, the cups washed by women are already very clean, but men are not satisfied and must be cleaner. When women leave angrily, men can only wash themselves until they are satisfied. In this case, if a woman doesn't understand, she will quarrel with a man. If she has, she will choose any useful method or deal with it. In any case, you will feel dissatisfied. You might as well wait for her to deal with it passively. With this idea, women will become more and more lazy.