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Is it terrible to be laughed at?

There are some people around us who are afraid of being laughed at before speaking. If you are with strangers, you will be more silent. As a result, they said nothing and found nothing.

Being afraid to speak is a major psychological obstacle in interpersonal communication, so we should have the courage and courage to overcome it. First of all, the speaker is required to objectively analyze his communication situation and find out the reasons for his timidity, and then the right medicine can be given. Here are some simple and effective methods.

One of the ways is to recall carefully and recall the things that made people laugh before. A person who is afraid to speak may be stimulated at a certain age in front of someone because of something. If he finds something that has laughed at him or made others laugh before, he will realize the source of shyness and dig out the source of his own shyness, so he won't feel anything terrible.

The second method is to analyze the facts, analyze the truth and find a solution. Shy people should think like this: if someone makes fun of what you say, it doesn't mean that everyone has made fun of you; If your words are ridiculous, not everything you say will be ridiculous; If your words are really ridiculous, others will only laugh at that sentence, not yourself; Besides, as we all know, everyone has been laughed at by others, which is very common. Besides, if the person who laughs at you is a person who takes pleasure in making fun of others, most of the fault is not you, but the person who likes to make fun of others. The best way to get rid of this situation is to try not to speak in front of this person in the future.

The third way is to think about what you encounter in real life, especially about talking, to be calm and clear-headed, and to treat right and wrong correctly. For example, ask yourself: Why am I so afraid of others laughing? Will what you say really make others laugh? How can we avoid making people laugh? Do people laugh because I'm not confident? How can we overcome our own disadvantages and improve our language communication ability? If we can really analyze all these problems and find out the crux of the problem, then all the problems will be solved.