Grandparents, grandparents only care about their own enjoyment of life, without children, not afraid of jokes?

Grandparents only care about enjoying their own lives and are unwilling to help with their children. They are not afraid of being laughed at, because they are always self-centered and live in their own world. Relatively speaking, in today's society, there is a selfish tendency not to help children with their children. After all, the pressure of life now is natural, and we should have the consciousness of helping each other. Although it is my duty to say no and help teachers diligently, after all, as parents and children, there are family ties and feelings of mutual help and concern.

But as young people, without the help of parents, we should not hold grudges against them. After all, it is difficult for them to raise themselves, and it is also difficult to raise a child. We should also have a deep understanding after having children. Therefore, for their parents and parents-in-law, they are reluctant to take care of their children, probably because they have already tasted the hardships of life, not to mention that they were, well, far more than we are now. It is even harder. When you retire, it is understandable to want to enjoy your life. Life revolves around children, and you have to take care of them when you are old. Actually, it's hard to remember. They should have their own unique life.

Sometimes we put ourselves in the other's shoes and don't know whether we are willing to take care of our children in the future. Many young people will say, I am willing to pay, but I am not willing to contribute. In fact, grandparents and grandparents are not like this now? Everyone wants to have their own life. They also have a world and a circle in their own world. They also want to see the world the way they want, not just around their families. The days of losing myself like this must have lasted for many years, but when I was finally free to play, I was kidnapped by my children, which seemed inappropriate.

Although young people are under great pressure now, the cost of mortgage, car loan and raising children has greatly increased, and they will have to face the support of their parents in the future. However, since children have their own living conditions and ideas, they should not kidnap their parents to protect themselves.