Will men be looked down upon by women if they are not excellent?

If women feel that they are not good enough and feel insecure, they often take the initiative to show their vulnerability and anxiety and seek comfort and help from the outside world. When this happens to a man, he doesn't want to show it. He is afraid of being looked down upon by others, especially women.

Men feel that they are not good enough and will be looked down upon by women. Men think that women like men who are good enough or even perfect. Actually, this is a misunderstanding between men and women. As long as men make women feel at ease and practical in one aspect, women will unconditionally tolerate men's incompetence in other aspects and will never look down on men for it.

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Men are often worried about being looked down upon by women because they are fat, short and bald.

For example, a woman will half-jokingly say to a man, "Everyone else is an eight-pack abdominal muscle, and you are a piece of fat." "With so little hair down, you will soon go bald." "Your beer belly is really getting bigger and bigger."

Whenever I hear these jokes from women, men will take them seriously and think that women don't love him, so they will dislike him for being fat, short and bald. In fact, women don't care much about men's figure and appearance. Compared with the exterior of men, women value the interior of men more.

Don't feel inferior because of your external shortcomings. Most men are in poor shape. Your belly is bigger and your hair is less, which doesn't affect women's feelings for you.

Besides, she didn't mean to mention these ironies to make you feel bad. On the contrary, she cares about you, worrying that your body will be affected if you continue to gain weight, and that your hair will be less and less because of lack of sleep and too much thinking. I hope you can relax and ensure the time and quality of sleep.

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Men are often worried about being looked down upon by women because others don't recognize him.

In particular, women's friends or family members have some bad views on men, which will make men panic and fear that women will be influenced by them, shake their minds and leave him.

Men can rest assured that women will have their own experience and judgment, not as opinionated as you think. Women all know that falling in love is a matter of two people. In the eyes of outsiders, you are one-sided, while in the eyes of women, you are three-dimensional and concrete.

A woman will trust her personal feelings when she is with you. If she thinks you are nice and cares about her, she will be dead set on you. Even if there are more opposing voices outside, she will stick to her feelings and try her best to defend you when others speak ill of you.

Men are worried about women's disapproval, not others'. If some of your words and deeds make women feel chilling and think you are unreliable, then even if a woman's family and friends recognize you and put in a good word for you, they will not shake her determination to leave you.

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Men are often worried about being looked down upon by women because women are more successful than themselves.

Men have become accustomed to the leading role in the relationship between men and women, thinking that men must be taller, earn more, be more knowledgeable and be more successful than women …

Both men and women are human beings, and their essence is the same. In the relationship between men and women, men may be more successful than women, and vice versa. In the past few years, men are usually more successful than women, because women don't have as good learning opportunities as men, and they don't have as many opportunities for promotion and making money as men.

For a woman, she will not look down on men because she is more successful than men. But if a man feels inferior, complains and doesn't make progress, women will really look down on him.

Finally, I want to say that women actually don't have high expectations for men. As long as men can be kind to women and make them feel practical, women will not care about men's beer bellies and baldness, criticism from family and friends, or whether women earn more or men earn more.