Couples are always angry and quarrelling because of jokes. What should we do?

? I think this is a question about "degree". The first is whether there is a joke between husband and wife, and the second is whether they are generous to each other.

? Let's start with the first question. In fact, under normal circumstances, joking and fighting between husband and wife is conducive to strengthening feelings and making them sweeter. This is the honey of love. However, when you are joking and quarreling slowly, you should pay attention to this problem. First of all, you should think about whether two people are joking without a degree, or even hurting people with ugly words. If this is one or two of them, then you should calm down and have a good talk, and it is best to make three chapters to change this situation.

? Secondly, perhaps the jokes between husband and wife are moderate, and occasionally they may exceed this level, but it doesn't matter, because the main problem is that the other party is not generous enough, no matter whether it is a small joke or a big joke, it is easy to get angry. So, since two people are so sensitive, it's better not to joke. After all, joking is an active atmosphere, but it is embarrassing to make the atmosphere stiff.

? My parents often joke, too. Sometimes, we children will find it interesting to hear their jokes. Not all families are happy. I remember once my father was angry about something. My mother immediately made a joke. The two men made up.

? Generally speaking, husband and wife should be tolerant and considerate of each other, and don't haggle over every ounce. If even joking between two people can cause conflicts, what should I do in my next life? In case you two have children, I'm afraid the children will be unhappy when they see your state in the future.