How to emphasize learning when joking?

Joking is the lubricant of interpersonal communication. Joking properly, appropriately, humorously and humorously will bring happiness to people around you. However, many people turned their friends against each other because of their outrageous jokes, and even caused bloodshed and life-threatening incidents. It can be seen that joking should also grasp the scale and pay attention to etiquette.

(1) Don't expose other people's shortcomings. Shake out the other person's little-known shortcomings such as physical defects and life stains as jokes, which seriously hurts the other person's self-esteem.

(2) Don't joke with sarcasm. If the starting point of joking is to belittle each other, criticize others and achieve the purpose of raising yourself, it is all wet.

(3) Speak without foul language. As soon as I said it, I swore that I felt like a hero. In fact, I not only belittled my personality, but also made the other party unhappy, and the surrounding audience avoided it.

(4) does not involve the privacy of others. Jokes often inadvertently involve the privacy of the other person's life and work, so it coincides with the presence of the other person's lover, relatives, especially superiors, which can easily cause the speaker to be unintentional and the listener to be intentional, thus ruining the other person's "good thing."

(5) Don't drive people into a dead end. "General" is a term in chess, which means to push an opponent to the wall. For example, if you treat what you can't do as a joke, and then "take the other side's army" and let the other side do it, and the other side is a proud person, then you will go against the wind, have an accident and end in tragedy.

(6) Don't make fun of people. Always making repeated jokes, the other party thinks he is having a hard time, and the two are jealous and turn against each other.

(7) Don't get to the bottom of it. Take some gossip as a joke and press it hard to the end, which makes the other party extremely disgusted.

(8) Don't make rude jokes. Taking some obscene or private things as jokes not only shows that you have no quality, but also makes the other party embarrassed.

(9) Don't play tricks on others. Play pranks, trick each other into sudden misfortune and surprise, the truth comes out, and gloat when you see each other being teased. This practice is unacceptable.

expert opinion/advice

Don't joke with a straight face. Don't joke with others with a straight face in life, so as not to cause unnecessary misunderstanding.

Don't tease your boss. Even if you were classmates or good friends with your boss, don't joke with your boss on the basis of past friendship, especially when others are present.

Don't always joke with your colleagues. When joking, you should master the scale, don't be careless and always joke. Staying like this for a long time is not solemn enough in front of colleagues, and colleagues will not respect you; In front of the leader, you will appear immature and unpractical, and the leader will no longer trust you and will not entrust you with important tasks.

Don't play too many jokes with colleagues of the opposite sex. Sometimes, joking in the office can adjust the tense working atmosphere, and joking between the opposite sex can also bring each other closer. But remember not to joke too much between the opposite sex, especially not to tell dirty jokes in front of the opposite sex.