How to treat the disabled correctly?

First of all, we must address them with respect and kindness. The younger one is Xiao Wang and Xiao Li. Older people can be called, Zhang, Aunt Wang, etc. According to their specific situation; Those who are similar in age are called Comrade Zhao, Ms. Song and Sister Liu. The tone and intonation of address should be cordial and close. Never call Li blind or Zhang lame.

Class, that is, people who are very familiar with it, had better not call it that. Even if you are joking, pay great attention to their names.

Second, when you meet disabled people, your eyes are very important. You must do the following two things: First, you should look with normal eyes and never show strange or curious expressions when you see disabled people; Second, we can't stop looking at their disabled parts. If you don't know in advance, look away as soon as you see it; If you know in advance, don't look at the disabled part at all. Some people are used to looking up and down after meeting strangers, which has little to do with healthy people, but they must not look at disabled people like this because they are physically disabled and feel inferior to others. If someone looks up and down carefully, it is equivalent to sprinkling salt on the wound and hurting the heart.

Third, when talking with disabled people, we should pay special attention to avoid using words and contents related to their physical defects. If we want to talk about the disabled, we should talk more about the cause and spirit of struggle of the disabled, social activities and personal behaviors to help the disabled, enterprises and institutions serving the disabled in the socialist market economy and their development prospects. Generally speaking, don't talk about disabled people, just like interacting with normal people. The content of the conversation can be broader. According to the interviewees' hobbies, astronomy, geography, history, economy, politics, culture, news, interesting things, international and domestic can make them feel that people are not treated differently.

Fourth, we should pay special attention to ways and means when helping the disabled. Before helping them, we must get their consent before we can give concrete help. For example, when you meet a blind man who is about to cross the street, you should respectfully walk up to him, explain your identity and ask, "Do you want me to lead you across the street?"

Good "? If he agrees, help him cross the street. Because the disabled are very competitive, they don't like or even resent the pity of others. If you don't ask for their permission and help as soon as you go up, you may be rejected by him, or say something unpleasant, which will put you in an awkward position.

In a word, treating disabled people is different from treating normal people. We need more understanding, care and patience, and we must communicate with them in a normal and equal manner.