Television and the story of the big pearl father and son

Terry and his son sang enthusiastically. The son with "sensory integration disorder" can talk, which is something that Terry, the lead singer of rock music, can't even think about. Under his careful care, his son can finally speak. On the colorful finals stage tonight, Telly and his son enthusiastically sang "Crossing with You", showing the warmth and beauty of the family. At this moment, Terry should be the happiest father in the world.

The story behind the performers is the best part of China people. Black Panther band lead singer Telly left the band for her mentally retarded son 10 and took good care of her son. After 10, he returned to the music scene for his son and performed with his mentally retarded son. What a nice man, father! To tell the truth, giving it to me may not bring my mentally retarded son to the public.

Panther lead singer Teri

After many years, it is still very touching to sing the "shame" of that year. Very good. I used to listen to his songs in middle school, but now I'm back on the stage more than ten years later, but I quit halfway because I'm taking care of my sick son. Now you can perform on the same stage, and Xiang will experience countless sadness. Needless to say, I am very touched.

Once the leader of China's rock circle, the rock youth with long hair and shawls is now unshaven and vicissitudes, and no longer in high spirits. This is a scene in February 16 CCTV's "Brilliant China People". Everyone was shocked when TV appeared on the stage. I didn't expect the once all-powerful rock singer to reappear in this way. Unexpectedly, he was accompanied by a touching father-son relationship for ten years.

Give up music to accompany my son.

As a flag of Chinese rock, Black Panther band has accompanied many rock fans with fond memories. His lead singer, from early Dou Wei to Luan Shu to Telly, from 1994 to 2004, Telly devoted ten years to Panther. However, in March 2005, Black Panther band held a press conference to announce the replacement of the lead singer, and Terry almost disappeared from the music circle.

"For My Son" is the answer given by Telly on the stage of "Brilliant China People". In 2003, Terry's father died suddenly, and his four-year-old son, Da Zhu, was found to have severe synesthesia disorder. Qin Yong is more aware of the value of family ties than ever before. He resolutely decided to leave the stage and take care of his sick son at home.

"When he was 4 years old, he really found that he had problems and didn't adapt to this society, so he often called me to kindergarten to apologize to his classmates who had hurt him." Telly decided to take her son to Beijing Children's Hospital for an IQ test, but the tested son didn't cooperate with the doctor's instructions at all. The doctor said helplessly, "What should I do? If I don't answer a question, my IQ can only be zero. " When Qin Yong and his children were cornered, a friend enlightened him and said, "He is not sick at all, but he can be improved and cured. In fact, the method is very simple, it is you. "

Be sure to spend more time with him, caress him and communicate with him. "For the sake of children, Terry finally decided to give up his music career.

"Since my father died at my concert, I feel I must have the responsibility to pass on the family instructions he gave me to the next generation. This is the unshirkable responsibility of every father. " Terry said.

Cultivate the son's integration with the outside world imperceptibly.

In the past ten years, it has been the most important schedule for Terry to accompany her son to do rehabilitation training every day. For a child with sensory impairment, even the simple action of tying his shoelaces may be a lifelong difficulty that he needs to overcome. Knowing that riding a bike is the best training for sensory coordination, Terry and his son started practicing for a long time. At that time, the neighbors of Qin Yong's family could always see such a picture: the son staggered on the bicycle, and the father ran hard with the back seat of the car, fell down and got up to continue. ...

It is gratifying that although the IQ of Big Pearl is different from that of ordinary people, she has shown her love for painting and history since she was a child. Terry has always fully supported his son's hobbies. When Qin's father found out that his son was fascinated by history, he immediately bought many history books for his children to read. On the day when she appeared on the stage of Wonderful China, Terry also put on a T-shirt with her son's hand-painted.

On June 5438+065438+ 10 last year, Qin Yong took a big pearl and started a aimless journey. The car has been going south, from Beijing to Hainan. "During this half-month trip, I let him get in touch with society more. We saw a lot of things, and he also saw how I treat people. I visit friends in every city. Only in this contact will I know what is polite, considerate and easy-going. " Television is such a subtle way to educate children and cultivate their communicative competence.

"Educating children, I think it is really an art. The so-called art is that you have to master relaxation, so as to cultivate a child who loves life very much and is very flexible." Talking about her educational experience, Terry said, "I think emotional intelligence is an important indicator of this society and the future. No matter how good he studies, he is completely blind, heartless and can't do anything well. Terry believes that if a person can find his own advantages, it is the greatest gain in life. Through several discoveries, Telly also saw many valuable aspects of the big pearl: "He saw the wonderful stage and lighting, so I think his performance is very talented in this respect. Then in the future, I will also find this opportunity to let him try more. "

Music is your most loyal friend.

"Dad, I hope to see you singing on the stage again" was the encouragement of my son, which made Telly have the idea of returning.

Last summer, Qin Yong took his son out for a ride on a motorcycle. He has two habits: he never answers the phone when riding a bike and never answers the number of strangers. But on that day, by chance, he broke the habit and answered the phone. This is the program group "Brilliant China People". Television has found this long-awaited stage.

"1998, our band first appeared on the CCTV stage, which is a precedent, so we are still full of feelings for the CCTV stage. Being able to board the ship again is a little like revisiting the old place, which reminds me of many things in the past. This is a very unforgettable feeling and very beautiful in our lives. " Terry said.

In "Brilliant China People", Telly performed the original song "Grow Together". This song was written many years ago. At that time, he was invited by friends in the music circle to write a song for a public welfare activity. When he saw the children in poor mountainous areas on the live VCR, he lived optimistically despite the hardships of life. He thought of his son, Pearl, and the little things with him. "The world is too big, they can't see you. At this time, you can only rely on yourself, leaving footprints step by step, and it is possible to get out of a world ... "The lyrics pinned a father's deep expectations for his son. When Terry sang this song dedicated to her son, the warm lyrics and touching melody touched people's softest hearts. Many spectators were red-eyed, and even judges Zhou Libo and Jet Li wept silently. Zhou Libo is also a father, and he makes no secret of his respect for TV. "I am also a father. I think it's really not easy for you to replace tears with a smile. "

Terry expressed her feelings about music like this: "Music is something that blends into my blood and is also my most loyal friend in my life. In the ten years of accompanying my child, I was separated from it, but when you need it, it will be sent to you as soon as possible. " Terry said that for his son, he especially likes listening to his own singing. "I need to tell him a lot with singing, so I have to sing, and I have to communicate with him with music."

Rock and roll is the sound from the soul.

After leaving Black Panther band, Terry and his wife opened a furniture factory in Beijing to make a living. Telly, whose so-called interlacing is like a mountain, has never been cheated in business. He also revealed that when he went out to deliver furniture, he was often recognized and sometimes embarrassed. "They will ask me,' Why didn't you sing?' But that's what most people ask me. I don't want to say why, so I prevaricate."

There is a great contrast between the secluded life and the scenery on the stage that year. Telly is willing to regard this as the practice of life: "Don't think about the past, don't take yourself too seriously, if you can't sing now, you have to face it." Terry believes that throwing away the aura of the past has given him a new feeling: "If you do something, no matter how ordinary it is, as long as you persist in doing it, there will be earth-shaking changes, so I still insist on it. I always feel that I will get better and better, and I will live every day by this belief. " Terry has always been optimistic about life. He regarded this as the biggest gain of this experience: "My parents instilled optimism in me, and I encountered something particularly unsatisfactory. Even when things go wrong, I always look on the bright side. This is a habit developed in our family. "

Is Telly's return to the music circle to participate in Brilliant China a signal? Terry doesn't have much planning for the future. For him, accompanying his son to "grow up together" will be the most important topic in his life. Telly revealed that the next time he appeared in Brilliant China, he would sing a song with Big Pearl, hoping to give his son more opportunities to shine. Talking about the feelings of today's rock music, Telly also expressed his definition of rock music: "It is not that rock music has a particularly manic and tough tone. My definition is that any music that really comes from the soul sound is rock music. It may be very gentle, it may be very sad, and it may be very exciting. The measure is whether it is the voice from the soul. "