Let the husband give up completely.

Let the husband give up completely. We know that what we say is like spilled water, which hurts our husband's heart and it is very difficult to take it back. Therefore, when a husband and wife quarrel, don't say hurtful words, otherwise, the water under the bridge will make her husband completely give up.

Let the husband give up completely. 1 "Why are you so useless!"

Women care most about their emotional connection with others, while men care most about their own abilities. Women, especially married women, often complain about their husbands' incompetence. This accusation of incompetence may be in business or in life, but it is often this sentence that greatly hurts men's self-esteem.

The success of career and the embodiment of ability are the most important parts in a person's life. Blindly sarcasm can only make a man desperate. If you want to save your husband's heart, you must accept and face the facts, because every man's ability is different. Since you chose to be with him, you accepted all of him.

"Look who bought a new house and car ..."

This sentence will lead men to two conclusions. One conclusion is that they are useless and can't meet their wives' demands materially. One conclusion is that the wife is a fierce eye and loves money more than lovers.

In this way, the husband will not only be dissatisfied with himself, but also have enough reasons to be dissatisfied with his wife. If you talk too much, the husband will mistakenly think that his wife is implying something to himself, and the relationship between husband and wife will be more alienated. Saving her husband is even more difficult.

"Have the ability to go outside and be king."

When a husband and wife quarrel, the wife who is usually polite to others will be uncharacteristic and have a big fight. Tell this to her husband.

There may indeed be many husbands who are too weak to get angry with others, but they will only get angry at home, but this is also the pain point of their personality. A wife shouldn't poke her husband's scar on purpose at all, because it is not conducive to your saving her husband's heart at all.

"Who is she? What is your relationship? "

If a man's cell phone rings, his wife will unconsciously ask, "Who is it?" If the husband is a little hesitant, he will then ask, "Who is she?" "What's your relationship?"

It is understandable that women have been suspicious since ancient times, and it is understandable that they like to rummage through other people's mobile phone bags, especially their husbands.

However, the distrust between husband and wife that makes the husband feel will greatly affect the intimate relationship between the two.

Speaking it out is like splashing water, which breaks my husband's heart. It's hard to get it back.

Therefore, when a husband and wife quarrel, never say this sentence, but correctly express their love for their husbands with gentle words to save their hearts.

Let the husband give up completely. In fact, it only takes "three sentences" to make the man give up.

0 1 preface.

It is an ideal state to meet by chance and have the opportunity to hold hands.

However, in real life, many people meet and never separate. Even if a person is attached to each other, it can't arouse the waves of love. After all, in the emotional world, "it takes two hands to make a sound."

In a certain corner, when you meet someone who makes you feel really excited, everyone will hope that love can come true naturally. However, many times it is normal to love and not love.

Trying to please each other, I was greeted with a cold face.

I want to try to grasp my destiny, but if a girl doesn't love you, no matter how much she pays, she will only become powerless.

In love, even if there are many challenges, men will have the strength to stop until they reach their goals; In order to win the love they want, they do whatever it takes to impress each other completely one day.

You have feelings, I have no intention.

Many times, girls' reserve is a kind of charm in men's eyes.

In the process of pursuing love, the more girls refuse, the more boys will fall into it. On the one hand, I feel that such a woman has a mysterious charm; On the other hand, it is precisely the result of the "Chickney effect" in psychology. The more you can't get it, the more you can't let it go.

Love and marriage directly affect women's happiness for the rest of their lives.

Therefore, before falling in love, girls need to be cautious and choose a relationship that really suits them; We should not choose the wrong person in a panic, and then live in regret all our lives.

Of course, there is another situation where two people are really inappropriate.

In the face of such suitors, girls may choose to refuse directly; However, if boys feel that this way of testing love actually stimulates the enthusiasm for pursuit, it is actually quite embarrassing.

In the emotional world, I am most afraid that you have feelings, but I have no intention. The result of tossing each other will only consume precious time.

Men love face more.

Some people say that men are a face-saving species.

In interpersonal communication, they try to be rational and steady, and there is even a saying that "men don't flick when they have tears"; But deep down, men also need to be understood and cared for.

Don't men just want to feel safe when they meet someone they like?

Because the other person quietly enters their hearts, they will be desperate, at all costs, want to grasp their destiny, and hope to spend the rest of their lives with such a woman.

If possible, men will shoulder the responsibility and give each other a happy and beautiful future.

However, feelings are not a person's business, but the result of two of a kind. In fact, boys also know that there is another reason for their rejection, that is, the other party really doesn't like themselves.

However, sometimes they will stick to it to save face.

If this is the mentality, I suggest not to continue. As an old saying goes, "Twisted melon is not sweet", without the foundation of two of a kind, love can hardly go far.

Three words, let him give up.

Don't make do with love

Two people are deeply attached to each other, based on sincerity, and such feelings can stand the test of time.

Otherwise, there is a lack of the cornerstone of love and insufficient sense of responsibility. Even if they succeed in holding hands and face setbacks, both sides will choose to go their separate ways. The result will not only be unhappy, but also hurt people's hearts too much.

Inappropriate feelings, or point to stop.

From the standpoint of girls, if the other party is not suitable for them, they will not choose to compromise. How should they decisively reject each other instead of dragging their feet and letting boys get deeper and deeper?

In fact, it only takes "three sentences" to make a man give up.

First: we are really not suitable.

In the face of boys' pursuit, if the other person, it is also your choice.

Might as well take advantage of the opportunity to give him a step, but also let nature take its course and make love a reality; From then on, I will write romantic emotional stories with my beloved.

If the other person really can't make you have the idea of falling in love, decisive refusal won't hurt the other person's feelings.

Saying "we are not suitable" with righteous words is more powerful than evasive shyness; The result of your evasiveness will only make people feel that there is still a chance.

Only when you clearly express your feelings and look forward to love can he feel your sincerity and avoid misunderstanding; Then he will re-examine your relationship and accept the reality in front of him.

Number two: you won't understand.

Unconsciously drawing a line between two people usually begins with refusal.

No matter how much a person loves you, if you choose to refuse to communicate with each other, the gap between them will easily arise. If you lock your heart and shut the other person out, if the boy is not stupid, he will probably stop pursuing.

For example, when he is excited to share his joy with you and wants to be closer to you, but you choose to treat him coldly, it is easy for him to lose the idea of sharing.

When the other person wants to communicate with you, it is easy to dispel his passion by saying "You won't understand".

Although such words are too cold, I have to admit that this is an effective way to refuse others' pursuit; Don't want to be haunted, don't want to miss true love, just choose "cut the gordian knot".

Number three: You are really annoying.

One tried to please, and the other chose to back down.

In the emotional world, there is never absolute fairness, which is often accompanied by seesaw phenomenon.

If two people are right, being together will inevitably give you a strong affection; This mode of getting along will also give feelings a chance to sublimate day by day.

If the two sides are not suitable, it will only make people feel bored and unable to find happiness.

There is a saying that "short pain is better than long pain."

The arrival of fate is inseparable from the initiative of one party; If the boy is your favorite object, please give the other person a chance and give yourself a chance; If you don't love him, don't hesitate to give him a happy answer.

05 conclusion.

Misunderstanding actually hurts the most.

When a boy has a crush on you, he sends you a signal of love. If you give positive feedback, if the other person is not stupid, he is bound to run after you and try to seize the fate.

When you choose to refuse, boys will choose to stop abruptly if they are interested.

But some people obviously don't love it, but they have to refuse it in an implicit way; As a result, the other party mistakenly thinks that this is a kind of reserve, a kind of refusal in return, but it will stimulate the inner desire to continue pursuing.

The result of mutual misunderstanding will only make the lovers fall into the mire of feelings.

Therefore, to paraphrase an old saying, if you love, please love deeply; if you don't love, you must refuse decisively.

Author: Zhou Qiaofu, an emotional cultivator with attitude. Write the story of human warmth, read the story of warm heart, and thank you for your company all the way. I only hope that the years will be quiet and the clouds will be light. When you meet me in a joke, we can talk about our feelings.