What should you pay attention to when joking?

Joking can add joy to life. Life cannot be without jokes. Life without jokes is boring. There are jokes everywhere in life, and jokes are a reflection of the joy of life. When people are not studying or working, they gather together in small groups to make people laugh with humorous language, make people laugh with witty metaphors, or make people laugh with funny actions. This is naturally a good thing. . If the interactions between each other are unknown and solemn, life will lack vitality, the atmosphere will be too serious and tense, and the relationship will be indifferent. Joking, from the perspective of the function of pleasing oneself and each other, is undoubtedly a kind of emotional regulation and spiritual adjustment. During the breaks between work and study, everyone can tell jokes, which can relax the highly tense nerves. In one sentence, everyone can lean forward and backward, and relax their muscles and bones. Besides, joking can enhance friendships, harmonize feelings, get closer to each other, and gain the satisfaction of victory. For example, a middle school student was bored one day. She suddenly wanted to ask a good classmate out to play, so she called the classmate and said that the classmate's mother was in the hospital emergency room and asked her to come quickly. When the classmate hurriedly arrived, When she was in front of the hospital, she hugged the classmate and said, "I am your mother!" This classmate couldn't laugh or cry, and complained endlessly. Therefore, when joking, you should pay attention to: First, the joke must make people laugh, but to make it interesting, the content must first be healthy. The purpose of joking is not only to arouse the nerves of laughter, but also to enable people to gain enlightenment, increase their knowledge, enhance unity and encourage each other through laughter without knowing it. If the content is vulgar, even if it can make people laugh, the fun of the joke will not be high, and it will be difficult to make people laugh knowingly from the bottom of their hearts. You Hulu in the movie "Fifteen Strings" also likes to joke, but his adopted daughter is more serious. You Hulu ignored this characteristic of his adopted daughter and jokingly said to her: "I have sold you." Unexpectedly, when his adopted daughter heard this, she ran away from home in a rage that night. What a coincidence, because she forgot to close the door when escaping. The door made it easier for Lou Ashu to sneak in and steal, which led to the tragedy that You Hulu was killed, and his adopted daughter and Xiong Youlan were imprisoned on suspicion of murder. Obviously, jokes don't matter, "jokes turn into disaster, and extreme joy turns into tragedy." Third, a joke should make people laugh, but it depends on the timing. Some people usually like to joke and amuse each other, but when they are depressed, troubled or unfortunate, what they need is sympathy, understanding and comfort. If you ignore the needs of others and keep joking and teasing as usual, you may make both parties unhappy or even quarrel. Fourth, the joke should make people laugh, but it depends on the occasion. You can't just make jokes based on your own mood regardless of time or place. When others are concentrating on studying a problem, you should not disturb them, otherwise you will interrupt their train of thought; in serious situations, you should remain solemn and never joke around, such as attending a memorial service. It is very rude to make fun of others. Fifth, jokes must make people laugh, but they must be measured. You poke me, I push you, this kind of joke is okay, but if it escalates step by step, if you bump into me, I will punch you, if you kick me, I will kick you, no excuses If you don't give up, this kind of joke may lead to tragedy. Sixth, to make people laugh by being helpless and carefree, the language must be appropriate. Do not use vulgar and vulgar language in exchange for cheap laughs, and do not use provocative or insulting words to take advantage of others. Through your good language literacy, you can help others cultivate their interest in laughter and get the enjoyment of beauty and the infection of panic. Seventh, make jokes to make people laugh, never play a "prank". Joking should be based on humor and harmonious play, and should not be a "prank". Joking like bragging, joking about other people's physical defects, and joking about exposing other people's shortcomings are all "failures" in joking. Eighth, don’t joke around when eating. Don't joke around while others are eating.