It is said that saliva can drown people. Are there any real examples?

It's really hard to completely block other people's comments. I remember when I graduated from college, I had no object, and I worked alone in Qingdao, far from home, and my family began to be restless.

My mother has never read a book, and a few words from others scare me. Every time I talk to her, she starts telling me to go home and find someone to marry. Between the lines, I probably understand that I am afraid that I have been cheated by men outside and eloped with others, bringing shame to the CSI family. My mother also said that I was old and people laughed at me and nobody wanted me, but I was only 23 years old! During that time, I usually worked well, but every time I was in a good mood and talked to my family on the phone, I became depressed.

My hometown village is like this: girls usually get married at the age of seventeen or eighteen. Compared with the girls in my hometown, I am really old. I also try to understand my mother. One is that she is in such a big environment, and the other is that she has never read a book, so her thoughts may be easily influenced. At the same time, I also tried to listen to my mother's words: parents will be worried if girls go out alone, so after working in Qingdao for one year, I quit my job and went home to find a job.

After returning home, the voice of finding someone to marry at home is still constant, and of course there are those malicious words that deny me. As a result, there was a blind date craze here, after rejecting many people. Once I met a person I like through my colleagues, and I took them home after getting along for half a year. However, relatives and neighbors began to talk again. Because the boy's family is not good, so no one wants me when I am old, so I just find someone to deal with it. My parents were also worried that I would lead a hard life, and joined those people in attacking me.

Nothing is more important than your own life, including love. Many people may encounter criticism, suggestions, good intentions or bad intentions from others on the road of growth. Learn to identify effective suggestions, stay awake and make decisions, defend your pure land and not be overwhelmed by spit.