Hey, you melted the whole glacier in my heart.

at the end of every dead end, there is another dimension of the sky.

| ? Liao Yimei? |

You are like a piece of sunshine, melting the whole stubborn iceberg in my heart.

1.

At the beginning is a line by Liao Yimei: At the end of every dead end, there is another dimension of the sky. What I want to say is that every girl who is afraid of love has another sunshine in her heart that can warm the whole Arctic glacier.

I stubbornly believe that people always have subconscious judgments about the results of things, but they are ashamed to admit and annoyed to accept the established results. When we are faced with an irreversible arrival, if we don't have the courage to solve it, it will definitely come again. Conflict and contradiction are always the main points of drama development. For love, there is no denying that I am a refugee. It's like God saw the human struggle and felt meaningless. I saw the sadness of love and disguised myself as a hedgehog to protect myself.

it is the instinct of all animals to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages, and people will consciously seek self-liberation. A pessimist is easy to get rid of, but there is no absolute pessimist in the world. Optimists are easy to be happy, but there is also a lack of pure optimists in the world. It is difficult for most people to find absolute relief in life, so there is no end to their misery. People's congresses haven't cultivated enough to get rid of all egos and look at problems outside themselves, so they are afraid. The greed and ignorance of Buddhists all come from the greed of the mind, and most of the sufferings in the world are also at the function of the self-mind.

if you feel that love is bitter, it's because you are bitter, but you haven't met the right person.

to get rid of suffering, we must first change our mentality. Let yourself feel happy and happy, and love is happy.

People, especially women, can be strong and invincible when they don't meet anyone they can trust, because they can only rely on themselves. And when they meet someone who is trustworthy and willing to rely on, their whole world will melt, and every flower that smiles at the corners of their fingers is soft, happy and sexy.

love is a weakness and armor.

Hi, thank you. Let me meet you and give me sunshine and warmth. Give me a chance to let go of my cowardice and hard strength. Tell me, hey, you can be as soft as a girl.

hey, you melted the whole glacier in my heart.

2.

The essence of love lies in understanding.

understanding without thinking, living without doctrine and sophistry. But this understanding, how rare.

I took the green leather train once, because there were only standing tickets left temporarily. Opposite me stood a couple who looked like college students.

The journey is very boring and the time is very long. Standing for a long time makes girls feel a little overwhelmed. The boy takes out a scarf from his backpack, and then puts the contents as flat as possible on the ground. The girl looks at the boy and smiles naively and sits on the backpack. The boy put the scarf on the girl's lap, turned around and smiled happily. They were silent all the time.

when you know a person well enough, a tacit understanding will be formed in the process of getting along. Needless to say, I know your mind.

In fact, when most people talk about love, they are talking about needs, not self-needs. Everyone thinks that their love is pure and aimless. In fact, in most cases, love, security and expectation are self-protection after choice. When you really love someone, you don't think about so many feelings. You just want to be with you, so go to the supermarket together, take a walk together, touch hands together, and live a dull life awkwardly, but still enjoy yourself.

Yes, I just want to hold hands with you, go to the supermarket, walk the path and watch the sunset.

and you?

2.

I understand.

how much do I know about you and how much do you know about me?

Maybe most people are lonely. The hardest thing to understand in this world is to understand. Just like you can't even empathize with your loved ones.

years ago, I accompanied my mother to buy new year's goods. I pushed the car to see my mother's chubby figure, and I was still very agile. I was careful in choosing things. What I took at hand was intercepted by the old lady, and I picked out the same kind of goods with different trademarks. I am also happy to accompany her son so slowly.

so, I know: yogurt should be the most modern, and vegetables should be judged by the circumference of leaves. All kinds of nuts and jellies should be packed separately so that children can choose easily. Pistachio depends on the opening, choose three or five places, and pass the time on New Year's Eve. Don't buy snacks at random, don't buy fried snacks ... These civic-minded jobs make my heart very happy. This is the day, simple and true, with stress. When I checked out, I found that what I saved little by little could save dozens in total.

my mother said that no matter how small the day is, I suddenly feel that I don't know my mother completely. I used to think that my mother was the kind of careless old lady who didn't have an algorithm. In fact, she was also careful about her life, saving what she could.

On the way home, my mother asked me, do you like the taste of hawthorn? Come on, I bought some. I said, mom, when do I like hawthorn? I always like strawberry. My mother: Oh, I remember wrong. Who likes to eat hawthorn ... Me: Mom, I remember it was you. My mother: Oh, yes. You still have different tastes from mine.

The smallest aspect of understanding is just like the deviation between my mother and me about each other's hobbies. This deviation also comes from self-opinion, which rises to the ignorance of spiritual level and lifestyle, and finally leads to disputes. The beginning, development and ending of things are the further deepening of conflicts and contradictions, interspersed with the affirmation of self-values and the denial of others' values. It is good to know a person with your heart, but it is more difficult to understand a person than with your heart.

Everyone's taste buds have their own hobbies, just as everyone has different standards for lovers. We can't ask others to be like ourselves, we can only be as tolerant and understanding as possible. In life, there are always some people who do things that sigh in the name of love.

3.

"Everyone is lonely.

in our life, it is not rare to meet love and sex, but it is rare to meet understanding.

There is a saying in Rhinoceros in Love: People can live on carbon dioxide as long as they have love.

Love is like amber. The beauty of texture and material is very important, but the most important thing is to have someone who knows her. Bole and Maxima, Zhong Ziqi and Yu Boya, you and him in love are all the same. It's not easy to meet someone who knows you all your life, but it's precious that you never give up your pursuit. Brave people will always be lucky, and it's not allowed to meet the matchmaker's arrangement at any time. I don't want to be beautiful all my life, but I want to love the city.

but the easier it is to say the truth, the harder it is for people to do it well.

Loneliness and love are not complementary, nor are they antonyms. They are not connected, but if a person with love is still lonely, I think this is very sad. Because there is no way to understand and find a way, because understanding is closer to each other's souls. Because of this, when you meet such a boy, cherish it, girl. Meeting someone who knows you is like ice and snow meeting the whole warm sunshine, which melts not only your loneliness but also your cold world.

Then, all my paranoia and pride completely collapsed, and all my extremes and disdain for love returned to my enthusiasm. Don't laugh at me, let a cheerful pessimist get a happy cognition, I am very happy in my heart. What's wrong with melodramatic? I'm happy with melodramatic. Although all these sophistry and discussion about ism may be meaningless, what I want to say is, hey, if you make such an eloquent and argumentative girl soft, sexy and happy like cotton candy, then this is undoubtedly a successful knight.

4.

Emotion is like a pool of water. A grain of sand falling into the water will also change the water level, although it still looks calm-the simplest emotion has a side you don't know. When we begin to summon up the courage to face up to our feelings, we will put loneliness on a level. When examining my feelings, I often wonder: What is affecting our love? Stimulate our desires? About our sight? Initiate our love? What kind of strength, what kind of breath, what kind of temperature, what kind of smile, what kind of atmosphere, what kind of breath. What kind of body and soul, what kind of coincidence, what kind of loneliness and persistence, what kind of heart and what kind of thinking. When you think what you like is boring, what you think you hate is hidden in good intentions.

These questions, like all the basic questions in life, cannot be answered. But because of this, all dramas and philosophies from ancient times to the present have produced endless expressions and touching expressions. "All love is sad, but despite sadness, it is still the best thing we know. Of all the vulnerabilities in the secular world, why not pursue beauty wholeheartedly, and it is useful to care so much.

Love is the most beautiful thing we know, so we should always pursue it firmly.

Believe me, God will be kind to those who are brave, strong and have dreams. If you love something, love it bravely. If you want something, go for it bravely.

as long as you have enough courage and desire, you are invincible.

fin.

Mo Duo said, "Man is a prisoner of his own situation."

Most human troubles are essentially anger at self-incompetence.

ok, then be brave. Love bravely and live bravely.