Name ambiguity joke

Students may not know their names before they enter school. When they enter the campus, students and teachers often call their names. A good name will make students confident, while a strange or ambiguous name will make students feel inferior.

Since ancient times, there has been a tradition in China that children take their father's surname. However, with the development of society, people's ideas have changed, and with the continuous improvement of women's status, many families also have children taking their mother's surname. If the mother's surname is too rare or the father's surname is embarrassing, children will generally consider taking the mother's surname.

There is a man in Jiangxi, surnamed Cao, who is very special. In real life, this kind of surname is rare. The man said that during his school days, he was often nicknamed by his classmates because of his surname. Although his classmates are not interesting, he is still a little uncomfortable to see his classmates making fun of his name.

I thought that with the increase of age, the probability of senior students discussing their surnames would decrease. Unexpectedly, after entering the university, many students still make fun of their surnames.

Perhaps in the eyes of other students, this is a normal ridicule among students, but for this male student, he was nicknamed by his classmates because of his surname since he was a child. Now he is still like this, and even naming his future child not only makes him feel lost. At that time, I made up my mind not to let the child take his own surname, but must take his mother's surname.

The man surnamed Cao doesn't want his son to take his surname. Throughout his study, he was nicknamed by his classmates. For the sake of his son's physical and mental health, he decided to let the child take his mother's surname.

I didn't expect grandma to disagree. In order to give the grandson a satisfactory name, grandma moved a lot of brain cells, just to give the grandson a nice and loud name, and more importantly, not to be laughed at by classmates, so grandma tactfully called it "Cao Shuai", meaning that he would grow more handsome in the future, which was recognized by both parents.

I think students in Cao Shuai can grow up as happily as other students. Unexpectedly, after school, they were nicknamed by their classmates. Many students will not call him the correct pronunciation of his name, but call him "sloppy", which makes the family feel very distressed. It's still too hasty to name their children. I didn't expect this homophonic terrier at first.

In fact, just from the name Cao Shuai, it is not bad, and it has a good meaning. In the later learning process, it will bring motivation to students, but it ignores the problem of homophonic stalks, which often leads to being called "sloppy" by students after school.

Parents must avoid uncommon words and traditional Chinese characters when naming their students. If they don't even know the teacher, they may reduce the number of questions in class. Over time, students will feel that teachers don't like themselves, including when students play after class, and they won't call students' names because other students' names are too difficult.

Secondly, we should avoid ambiguity in naming. Many students' surnames are very common, so there is no problem with the names taken out alone. However, if the names are combined, there will be ambiguity. For example, students from Huang Shang and Tang Bohu have no problem with their surnames, but when their names are read together, there will be ambiguity. In order to avoid embarrassment, teachers will deliberately reduce the number of questions in class.

In addition, parents should not be too picky when naming their students. For elementary school students, you should write your own name first in every exam. If there are too many strokes, it is a big challenge for them. Maybe other students have answered two questions, and are still dawdling over their names, which is invisibly behind the starting line.

It is better to give a child a thousand dollars than to teach him a skill, and it is better to give him a good reputation than to teach him a skill. The influence of a name on students can not be ignored. Even if you enter a university, an overly unique name will still bring distress to students.

For example, this "Qu Lala" classmate didn't dare to skip class for four years in college. The teacher may not know her, but she keeps the name in mind. Every time she calls the roll, she can't escape the teacher's "eyes".

A good name not only affects students' mood, but also reflects parents' education level. No matter whether students take their father's surname or their mother's surname, parents must think clearly and never be arbitrary.