Holding back my heart, I said: You chose a new lover, and I chose the time.

1. Laughing without words is an open mind, and pain without words is a practice. I didn't love it in the past, I don't welcome it in the future, and I don't live up to it now. It's too safe.

2. Flowers will not bloom in the coming year because of your alienation; People will become strangers because of your disappearance.

3. Forgetting a person only needs two things, time and new love. You chose a new lover, and I chose the time.

4. Disappointing things never disappoint me, and they seriously disappoint me every time. It is better to raise sand than to hold it.

5. Life needs three postures: downplaying the past; Cherish the present; Believe in the future.

6. The older you get, the more you learn to let nature take its course. I don't want to keep anything. I believe that things here will not disappear. Get calm, lose indifference, strive for inevitability and let nature take its course.

7. Be kind, hard-working, smile, optimistic, hide your sorrow in your heart and be a happy child.

8. How far a person can go depends on who he travels with; How good a person is depends on who gives him advice; How successful a person is depends on who he is with.

9. I don't know when I started talking to you carefully. I remember I used to be arrogant.

10, like something, don't ask others if it looks good. Like is better than all truth, and principle is not equal to my pleasure.

1 1. In wishful thinking, there is only meanness without love. We are all the same. In the end, it is only ourselves who are moved by kneeling.

12, I hope you can put down your persistence and your unwillingness. From now on, you are only responsible for your wonderful life. The past does not look back, and the future will not. If you are in full bloom, the breeze will come!

14, for life, acceptance is the best gentleness, whether it is accepting a person's appearance or accepting a person's disappearance.

15, a person has survived all the hardships, and he does not expect to be with anyone; I made a sincere effort, but I don't want to say the ending.

16, you try to take care of everyone's feelings and don't want people around you to be unhappy. You can always find subtle changes in their emotions, but in the end you will always be left behind.

The more you look at it, the sadder it gets. Later, you chose the right one, but I lost to like it.

1, I'd rather be called frivolous, proud and heartless than be a good person who can come and go at any time.

If what you give me is also for others, then I'd rather not. It's not terrible not to get it, but it's a joke not to stay.

I'd rather be lonely than against my will. I would rather regret than make do with it. Who can enter my heart, I will be king. I don't care about those who don't enter my heart.

Don't want anything, just want everything. It's now or never. From now on, I no longer expect, but cherish what I have.

I have ten thousand reasons to see you, but I lack an identity to see you. I've been observing you in ways you don't know.

6, some words are hidden in the bottom of my heart, not deliberately hidden, just, not all the pain, you can scream.

7. Later, you made the right choice, but I lost to my favorite.

8. If you don't know my suffering, don't persuade me to be generous.

I can learn to tolerate you, but I will never allow you to indulge me.

10, today, you are still the reason why I refuse others. Actually, I'm not waiting for you. I just can't like others.

Sad to say, some words must be hard for you to hold back, right?

Secrets and worries taste bitter,

You must have a hard time hiding something, right?

You might as well spit it out gracefully.

Please be like the following people.

Empty your body first,

for a better life

When you are in pain.

There is a feeling that I feel worse than you.

It was none other than Lan, the glib and eccentric child in my story, my little daughter who just had her sixth birthday.

One day after school, Lan cried again. There is no special reason, just because she asked me to carry another bag of pants that she got wet.

When she walked out of the classroom door, I found her schoolbag hanging stiffly behind her. I tentatively lifted the backpack strap, which was too heavy. I wonder what's in this bag. I asked: The schoolbag is so heavy, is there another child in the class giving a present for his birthday? The chicken looked at me, embarrassed. Then took my hand and walked out. I saw that the trousers she was wearing were not the ones she was wearing in the morning. Judging from her expression, I guess that's enough.

When no one was around, she motioned me to squat down, put my hands together, leaned over my ear and said, mom, I'm sorry, the schoolbag is too heavy because it contains my wet pants. Mom, don't lose your temper.

Well, I am a gentle and amiable mother. I can't lose my temper with her at this time. I tried to be considerate of her. I said okay, mom doesn't blame you.

It's a long way home. Turn left outside the campus and enter the side door of the community. The twilight in the community is heavy, but it can't stop the birds and flowers. Carrying her heavy schoolbag, I can't understand why she peed her pants again. She was educated a few weeks ago. I started talking to her: honey, mom doesn't criticize you, but mom wants to know why you wet your pants again. Mom, actually, I want to go to the bathroom when I sleep, but the teacher says I can't go to the bathroom when I take a nap. Oh, are you going to pee on the bed or in your pants? She didn't speak, and I was obviously no longer gentle.

Seeing my cold expression, she began to find a topic with me: Mom, don't you think the Sophora japonica over there is beautiful? There are flowers and plants in the community all year round, but she knows everything I know. I have seen through her plan for a long time. I said, don't change the subject with me. You peed your pants again. My mother is very uncomfortable now. You feel bad, I feel worse than you! Seeing that I didn't smile, she also looked angry. She took a step forward, looked back at me as she walked, and said, You will understand when you go home!

I carefully thought about what Lan said when she fell to the floor: I feel worse than you! Little people, can you care about others?

I peed my pants. Am I the most embarrassed and uncomfortable person? No, it's her! She had to face the kindergarten teacher's eyes. The life teacher washed her pants and put them in her schoolbag, and she still had to carry them home. Maybe her little friends know, too. Will she mind the eyes of her little friends? And mom and dad, what would mom and dad do to her if they knew she peed her pants again? My little guy, what kind of psychological burden does she have to bear before going to school?

I began to blame myself. I should have a better way to know her.

Pushing open the door, Lan went straight to the chair where she wrote. Unfortunately, the room is too small. We have never prepared a study desk for her, and we have always used a wooden dining chair as a writing desk. Lan skillfully took out paper and pen and began to write and draw. She uses a four-grid symbol to represent the first sentence and a series of wavy lines to represent what she wants to say.

I think she should be venting her inner feelings in this way. Let her explain what she wrote. She began to list the crimes of her father and me.

First, mom is a bad mother. Second, dad is a bad dad. Third, mom will lie. Fourth, dad

Dad can lie. Fifth, my mother cares too little about me. Sixth, my mother doesn't care much about me. Seventh, mom doesn't like to laugh. Eighth, dad doesn't like to laugh. To sum up, add one more thing: mom and dad didn't take good care of the baby.

She speaks eloquently, has strong logical thinking and fluent language organization. She should have borrowed from the way we had a family meeting before and recorded her mood at the moment.

I asked: When did mom ever lie to you? She said: You clearly said you would forgive me after school, but you were angry just now. This is a lie.

I said, you don't know how to write it yet. Why doesn't your mother help you write these down? Mom will correct them later. No, I remember everything! When she finished writing, she folded the list and put it in her schoolbag. When I went to the kitchen to cook, I took out my notebook and began to write her homework: pinyin letter Zh.

I chose to forgive her because I was more sad than you. Because of a list of conversations she wrote, I began to look at her with new eyes and reflect on myself.

Being an excellent mother is too ambitious. The six years she grew up were also the six years when I first became a mother. She grew up on a minor road, and I am trying to make myself mature and rich on the road for my mother. I stole a look at her while I was thinking. I saw that her posture of holding a pen was wrong again, so I couldn't help but go out and correct it with a spoon for cooking. She looked at me and I looked at her. I patted her on the back and asked, when can it be changed? She said: I am like this now anyway. I have grown up. I'm not afraid of you hitting me. I'll change the way you want me to correct it. Don't embarrass the children I want to do my homework. Go to the kitchen and do something!

I have no time to argue with her, because I clearly see that a growing child is becoming more and more agile. She seems to understand my confusion better than I do, because I can't think of any way to stop her from being careless and forgetful. I can only follow her growth law and let her grow naturally. When she asked me to find a way, wasn't she also educating and warning me?

Don't insist, don't be sad. When you are alive, look at the problem from the perspective of others and naturally see the growth of a child. Maybe many problems will be solved!

Talk about the sad feelings in my heart.

1. Life is so good, every day is different. If I could go back to the past, I would definitely bypass that place and miss you in a premeditated way. You tease me first, you leave first. In fact, everyone will be tired and just pretend to protect themselves. Sometimes, just like suffering from depression, you will suddenly feel bad. Occasionally, like having autism, I don't want to talk or move. When people ask, they don't know how to answer. They won't pretend to be silent, but they can't tell the difference. Maybe everyone has a dead end. If they can't get out, others can't get in. You don't understand me and I don't blame you. The most stable relationship in the world has nothing to do with it. 6. Leaving me alone to think is probably not love. 7. Maintaining this relationship is really tiring. 8. It may be very sad that you were not with me when I needed you. 9. Always have more than one can chew. 10. Later, I learned that we were just helpless in the story told by the storyteller. 1 1. It is estimated that no boy is in tears all his life. Tell me, I really can't live without you. 12. Good night, thousands of thoughts are only for one person, not for me. 13. Once upon a time, someone loved you for a long time, but the wind blew the distance so far. 14. Like you, what can I do, what can I do, what will I do? Obviously, nothing was done, and the story was over before it started. The beginning of the story is I love you, and the end of the story is I loved you. 15. From freshness to perfunctory, giving up is really just a moment. In a word, sad love, talk about it, and then you have a new love and I have a home.

1. I choose not to hate and leave peacefully.

You are the one who broke up, and you are the one who made up. What do you want?

You have a new journey, but I stay at the starting point.

4. Later, you have a new love and I have a home.

5. I obviously cared to death, but I finally put it down.

6. I loved someone very much, but I broke up with him.

7. He let go of my hand and said that we would be apart for life.

8. I can't wait. You have gone too far.

9. The farce is over, and I will never send it in my life.

10. Let me be the one who broke up.

1 1. I can only pretend to smile and watch you disappear in the crowded street.

12. The wind took away the story and you.

13. Let's drink to the past, but I still want to turn back.

14. Maybe you should learn to retain properly and let go at the right time.

15. Enough is enough, let go, at least it won't be too embarrassing.

16. Please take care of yourself even if we are not together.

17. The person you loved is still in my heart, although we can't be together.

18. Later, our only contact way was to like it.

19. Get used to life without you, so don't come back.

20. Mountains and water can be forgotten in pairs, and days and months can be irrelevant.

2 1. You didn't stay and I didn't look back, so the rest of my life was good.

22. Clean abandonment and decisive completion.

23. Without me, I wish you happiness.

24. Long-lost familiarity can always arouse people's sad memories.

25. In the days after breaking up, only cigarettes accompanied me.

26. The biggest fear is that I can't let go after breaking up.

27. How can you leave before the rain stops?

28. A terrible dream is that I can't hold you in my dream.

29. What a sad greeting to meet again after such a long separation.

30. I don't want to know your recent situation, and I don't want to know who walks arm in arm with you every night.

3 1. Thank you for appearing in my lost life.

32. whoever you like in the future will do, just don't look for me again.

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Since you can go, I won't send it.

I still like you very much, but I have been here with you all my life.

We didn't say goodbye, but we didn't bother each other.

36. The best way to say goodbye is to leave with a smile.

37. I forgot how many times I said I would give up on you.

38. I left you with all my strength.

39. You finally missed me who loved you the most.

40. You will never meet anyone who likes you more than I do.

4 1. I won't grovel any more. Please don't leave.

42. Don't walk too slowly and embarrass me.

43. The eyes say don't go, but the mouth is stubborn.

I was busy growing up when you left.

45. With some people, once you decide to separate, you won't meet again.

46. If you want to go, how can I stay?