I am outspoken, and everything I say is good for my friends, but why do they always misunderstand me and don't understand me? It's so depressing

An outspoken person is sociable and straightforward, but sometimes he is often misunderstood by others. Why? The reason is that this character brings some defects, that is, if you have anything in your heart, you can say it immediately, without covering it up, and your words are not elegant and euphemistic. Your words are right and your intentions are good, but it is inappropriate to say these words at this particular time and place. It will make the listener uncomfortable to say such things on some occasions. I mean no harm, but I did it for others. Not only can't get the gratitude of others, but also be rejected by others. It's really hard to repay my kindness! Don't be depressed, my friend. No big deal. Just pay attention to the occasion and the way in the future. For you, it also involves a question of tempering and self-cultivation. If you are older, this situation will be overcome.