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What does it mean to have trouble in front of a widow, especially a young and beautiful widow?

What does it mean to have trouble in front of a widow’s door? There is a lot of trouble at the widow's doorstep? What is the allusion to this sentence? It really has no serious origin. Most of them are funny jokes made up by later generations. Of course, it is not worth getting too entangled with.

However, as the saying goes, there is a lot of trouble at a widow's door? It is true. How many of them have some intriguing truths.

Especially young and beautiful widows can easily attract the attention of unscrupulous people. Even if they are clean and self-respecting and innocent, there is no guarantee that they will not be criticized. Pointing.

In fact, there is nothing strange about this. You can observe people after dinner. Whenever the topic involves private life, the speaker is beaming and lively, and the listener is intoxicated and relishing it.

What about the other side? In real life, there are also restless widows. The unclear relationship between men and women further supports the excuse that there are many disputes in front of the widow.

I have a female neighbor who is in her thirties. Her charm and beauty are still there. Her husband is a small leader in our town. His family background is very good, and he spends his days pampering himself. The life was really nourishing.

Unexpectedly, the good times would not last long. She never imagined that her husband would lose his life while driving under the influence, and she would become a widow overnight. Thinking about having no support for the rest of her life, she naturally felt miserable.

Not long after her husband passed away, someone began to persuade her to take another step forward, and naturally more and more matchmakers began to appear. Perhaps due to bad luck, the introducer changed several times, but he still failed to achieve success and is still stuck at the moment.

As time passed, all kinds of gossip spread like wildfire. It was said that she secretly had a crush and they had been together secretly for a long time. Some people also say that she has a relationship with her immediate boss in the company. Otherwise, why would she be so important?

In fact, this is just groundless speculation and there is no solid fact. Those women who have nothing to do just like to have some fun like this, which is really a bit boring.

As for the previous sentence saying that there is a lot of trouble in front of the widow’s door, it should be that there is little smoke on the widower’s roof.

What is a widower? Not many people know. Generally speaking, it refers to an old bachelor who has enough food for one person and the whole family is not hungry, and a man who lives with the widow.

For example, Tian Fu in the movie "Our Cow is 100 Years Old" is a widower who likes to eat and is lazy.

Tian Fu was idle when he was young. His family was extremely poor and he never found a wife. His life was really miserable.

The widow Juhua in the village is handsome. When she was young, she had sex with Niu Baisui but failed. Later, she got married and gave birth to a daughter. Unexpectedly, her husband's life span was too short, and she became a widow at a young age.

Tian Fu thought that his opportunity had come, so he ran to Juhua to show his courtesy when he had nothing to do. However, Juhua already had someone else in his heart, and Tian Fu, who had tried so hard, could only do it in the end. Is it a blind man lighting a lamp? It’s all in vain.

It can be seen that widows and widowers are special groups in society and deserve people's understanding and help instead of belittling, ridiculing and ridiculing them. Are you right?

As the saying goes: There is little smoke on the roof of a widower's house, but there is a lot of disputes in front of a widow's door. A widower refers to a man whose wife has died. A widow refers to a woman whose husband has died. The words come from "Shi? Xiaoya? Datian": He has a legacy, this has a stagnant ear, which is the benefit of the widow.

In ancient times, feudal ethics were very strict. They not only required women to obey the three virtues and four virtues, they should obey their father at home, their husband when married, and their sons in death. Widows are also required to abide by the eternal women's ethics, that is, a good horse should not wear a second saddle, and a brave woman should not marry two husbands. The best destination for a woman whose husband has died is to remain a widow for the rest of her life, and finally build a chastity memorial.

This sentence "There is a lot of trouble at a widow's door" literally means that a woman whose husband is dead often causes trouble, that is, attracts gossip. Feudal society was all about human labor. If a man in the family died, it would be difficult for the orphans and widowers to live. Some heavy and tiring tasks at home require help from other men. Over time, the man will be criticized by his wife and family members, and will also cause gossip among the neighbors.

Extended meaning can also lead to those unwarranted disasters, where everyone speaks for money and accumulates for destruction, which generally refers to malicious slander.

The first half of this sentence, "There is little smoke on the widower's roof?" means the literal meaning. In feudal society, male superiority to women was serious. After the wife died, most men could not cook. They would either go to the homes of relatives and friends, or go to work. Eat outside to solve the problem. So there is less smoke on the widower’s roof.

When I saw this topic, I was really glad that I grew up in an open-minded modern era, so as not to be imprisoned by the three obediences and the four virtues. As a woman, I was restricted by the feudal yoke throughout my life, and I never left the door or took a step forward. How can I travel as quickly as I want now?

The ending quotes Cheng Yi, a great Confucian and Neo-Confucianist of the Song Dynasty, who said: When mortals are married, is it possible for one person to die first, one person to remarry, and one person to marry again? About a lifelong couple. ? Equality between men and women and freedom of marriage are the right answers.

There are many disputes at the widow’s door? It is not an allusion, so it has no origin, so it is just a common saying among the people.

The word "widow" comes from "The Book of Songs": He has a legacy, this has a stagnant ear, which is the benefit of the widow. ?Refers to women who are widowed or divorced and living alone. In ancient times, the husband was the main productive force. After the wife became a widow, she naturally lost her financial resources and could only support herself. Widows are likely to be coveted, teased, and bullied by frivolous men nearby. If they are in love, scandals may easily occur. Therefore, old people often use these words to warn the men in the village who sincerely sympathize with the widow and are willing to help, and advise them not to cause quarrels.

There is a lot of trouble in front of the widow's house? This is the second half of the saying, and the first half is a little smoke on the widower's roof? A widower is the opposite of a widow, a husband who has lost his wife. In ancient times, men were the main household chores, and their wives took on all the housework. After his wife died, the widower who had never done any housework was at a loss. He didn't even know how to make instant noodles (if they existed in ancient times), so he ate whatever he could find. He dared to eat raw melons after rubbing them. Less (he must be able to do it too!). In addition, the word "Cooking Smoke" seems to be a pun, as cooking smoke means fireworks, and fireworks and cigarettes have the meaning of offspring. Therefore, the lack of smoke in the kitchen not only means that there is little cooking, but also implies that the incense cannot be continued after the death of the wife.