Some advice for girls who are kind-hearted, stupid, and soft-tempered.

Some advice for girls who are kind-hearted, stupid, and soft-tempered.

1. Expression

Don’t smile foolishly, especially if you don’t have enough confidence. You can make others smile at you just by looking at them. Not smiling at ordinary times can solve almost 50% of weakness problems!

2. Speak

Tone naturally, don’t whisper, raise your head, don’t blush and lower your head, speak calmly and steadily. As the saying goes, it is gentle but powerful. It is not good to speak too coldly. , overheating will not work either.

3. Walking

Keep your head up and your chest straight, look ahead, lower your feet, make a sound, keep your eyes level, don’t hunch over, walk as slowly and calmly as possible, don’t be downcast, the whole person’s aura will become weaker.

4. Jokes

If you don’t know how to tell jokes, don’t tell jokes. If you don’t have humor, don’t tell jokes. Otherwise, you will become a cold spot or topic terminator, and others will secretly laugh at you.

5. Rejection

Be firm and powerful. Reject others openly and with a short reason, preferably no more than five words, and avoid over-explanation. Remember, you have the right to say no. When others order you or kidnap you morally, they are asking for your help in disguise. Please don’t give in. Others take advantage of your affection for them and ask you to do various things for them. Please refuse!

6. Opinion bacteria

Do what you want to do and don’t ask other people’s opinions. Having an opinion is the first step to forming yourself. Even if you are wrong, it doesn't matter. (Lack of assertiveness reflects a person's lack of self-confidence and makes him make mistakes. Think about who in life doesn't make mistakes. Making mistakes is at least better than a yes-man.)

7. Help

Don't take the initiative Help others, take the initiative to consider others, take the initiative to give others advice, others do not need it, use your brain before helping others (your kindness may be seen as flattering by others, others may not buy it, and they will look down on you).

8. Dealing with things

Believe in the power of being low-key, don’t make your presence felt, and don’t be smart. Anyone who stands out too much will become the target of public criticism.

9. Interpersonal issues

Don’t make people happy with your own embarrassments, don’t say things that belittle yourself and elevate others, don’t show off yourself, don’t show weakness too much, but don’t go head-on. Don't be exaggerated when speaking. It's better to be conservative and don't be exaggerated at all. Too much is not enough.

10. Praise

Don’t praise others casually. If a weak person praises others, it will only make him feel very embarrassed.

11. After dating

When you are with others, let others find topics and leave the task of activating the atmosphere to others. Leave the task of meeting and greeting to others, unless others have taken the initiative to say hello to you once. You can be more proactive with the leader.

12. Speech speed

Slower, then slower, let the words pass your mind. When people talk to you, they usually ask you to wait at least five seconds before speaking. A noble person speaks late, so his words have weight. Slow down and don't be impatient.