My boyfriend wants to be a soldier. Should I support him to go?

Let me share a shit with you first.

I walked well last night. I met a mental derangement and deliberately found fault in front of me. At that time, I was very helpless. I was the kind of soft girl who wouldn't quarrel with others. At that time, I kept thinking that if only my brother were here.

Afterwards, I sent a circle of friends, the general content is, always bullying me so carefully, I am very glad that my brother killed you! Later, a friend commented, "MengMeng, you have a boyfriend!" ! !

I replied: well, yes. He replied: where did you die before that! Seeing you living so hard alone won't help you get justice! ! Is it dead? I silently typed a line to reply to him: he is not dead, just a soldier.

I read a joke before, saying that if your friend keeps losing contact, there is no doubt that he is either dead or a soldier. It used to sound like a joke, but now it's a little ridiculous.

Babe, who added my WeChat, knows that my circle of friends is my daily life, and I can hardly find traces of my boyfriend's existence. Many people will think that if I am single, I will feel super wonderful and super rich every day.

But, to be honest, who doesn't want to be a show when he's not in the army?

02.

There is a kind of loneliness called no one to share good things and no one to share bad things.

I don't know who to share happiness with when I meet happy things at work, and I don't know who to digest when I meet unhappy things in my life.

Once, after working in Beijing for a day, I saw a couple on the subway. Boys have been holding their girlfriends for fear that people next to them will squeeze in. At that moment, I was choked by the crowd. At that time, I really wanted him to be there, hoping to have a normal relationship.

When I was visiting my friend's show of love, when I was sick and wanted to go to the hospital alone, when I moved things alone at the beginning of school, when I watched a comedy but no one wiped my tears at last, when I saw a particularly beautiful wedding dress in the window, when I ordered takeout food and it was cold, when I came home from work and wanted to call him but no one answered, I finally entered the community with trepidation. When I got off the train and went upstairs with a suitcase half a man's height, when I dreamt about a person repeatedly at night, but I couldn't get in touch when I woke up, when I saw that it was warm, when I saw that book described my favorite life, I wanted to pat me on the shoulder and say, "Look, this is what I want", but I found that I was the only one.

How I wish I could not be lonely.

03.

I have never been in love before.

I always say those people, Xiu En 'ai died quickly.

I always tell myself that if I fall in love, I must secretly hide it from others. I want to keep a low profile.

Later, a person lived like this for a long time, and suddenly felt that having a beautiful love was also a kind of happiness!

How I want to be a person who can share my daily life with my boyfriend in a circle of friends.

For example, "My boyfriend is so annoyed today that he just won't let me eat hot pot."

For example, "How can a boyfriend be so stupid! I was cheated. "

I want someone who can have dinner with me.

You can take me to walk my dog and visit the night market after work.

Meet different things.

Even arguing is much better than finding a way for yourself.

04.

Military love is not necessarily positive energy, we should allow negative energy to exist.

It deprives many of us of the right to love. The comfort in thousands of phone calls is really not as good as a hug.

It's true that we can only meet once a year instead of being together every day like ordinary couples.

Yes, he is bound to miss many important occasions in your life.

But it is true that you love him.

It's not easy for you to bear this for him, but it's more real.

Many people always think that showing love is unforgivable, but in fact, for us who are in military love, occasionally showing love means that he can finally be by my side, but I tell the world that I also have the joy of having a boyfriend.

These are just complications of love. You can't stop love from happening, and you can't stop people who love each other from saying their love.

So, when we are in military love, give me a smile instead of asking where our boyfriend died before, OK ~ ~ ~

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