Why does my boyfriend refuse to borrow money from me?

I have seen this topic before, that is, the problem that a boyfriend borrows money from his girlfriend. Let me talk about my personal opinion first. I think the boyfriend who can borrow money from his girlfriend should be "love rat".

Then I also saw a better refusal reply, which I think is a better refusal way I have ever seen. It refused like this.

The girl said to her boyfriend, "Dear, if I tell you that I won't lend it to you, will you think that I don't love you, that I am an untrustworthy person, that I have never thought about your future, and even that you will choose to break up with me?" Will there be such an idea in the future? "

If the boyfriend says "no". Then the girl can say, "well, I won't lend you the money."

If the boyfriend says "yes". Then the girl can tell him, "If my future needs to be measured by money, I'd rather not". (such a reply may face the possibility of breaking up. But I personally think that when your so-called friend "plucked up the courage" to borrow money from you, he didn't care too much about what you thought of him (see)

2. Humorous rejection

The first refusal is serious and unambiguous. If you don't like it, you can consider the following methods. The following methods are also from some paragraphs or networks. Although it is a joke or a joke, I don't think it is a way to refuse. After all, these humorous knowledge comes from life and has certain reference value. Let's have a look.

(1) I'm so touched. You are the first person who thinks I have money.

(2) How much do you need to borrow? I'll start saving money now. I think this reply is particularly funny. Whether it's a boyfriend or a friend, or a classmate who hasn't shown up for a long time and borrowed money after showing up, he can reply humorously to show his refusal. My WeChat friends, whenever they send me a message asking me to borrow money, I always reply with this sentence, so that the humorous reply can also make the other party retreat. )

There are many ways to insult me, but you choose to borrow money from me.

We are poor enough to have a tacit understanding, and I am about to borrow it. How else can we be together?

(5) I am a child, and I only have money to buy lollipops!

These are all good ways to refuse. Finally, I still want to remind you that the boyfriend who really loves you won't ask you for money. Therefore, female friends should be vigilant and avoid being cheated and regretting.