What if I dare not speak English?

In fact, this question is really not personal. Many people, including many men, are particularly scared when they talk! I have also read many articles by experts. When it comes to how to speak here, I always say something innocuous, such as don't be afraid to say the wrong thing, don't be shy, just try to overcome my fear. But the problem is, we all understand this truth, but how can we break through this psychological barrier and make ourselves really not afraid? Sometimes I wonder if Li Yang, Yu and those academic English experts will be nervous when they talk to foreigners for the first time. Maybe at that time, they also said the donkey's mouth was wrong. Later, they learned enough "shameless" kung fu to really break through the difficulty of "speaking". Said some nonsense. Let's talk about our actual situation. I don't think everyone can practice oral English according to Li Yang's method. After all, many women are reserved. I think, including men, there are several kinds of fears that are afraid to say: 1. After all, English is not the mother tongue, and it is not as fluent and natural as we speak Chinese. So I always feel awkward when I say it, for fear that others will hear jokes about myself. I'm not skilled, and the idea of being afraid of jokes makes me nervous. The more so, the more afraid to say. There are too few sentences in my mind and too many words I have learned, but I just can't organize myself to express my thoughts at will, which makes communication difficult. Because in communication, what you hear is passive, and you don't know what the other person will say, so you will be nervous, afraid that you won't say it or you won't understand something, resulting in tension, which will bring fear to people. Maybe you have to face foreigners, although the streets are full of foreigners now, and there are TV movies everywhere. However, there is really a foreign living person standing in front of you and talking to you in English. You are really confused, because after all, all your listening exercises are standard recordings, not spoken English. There will be great differences in intonation, voice and tone. When I have no foreign friends, I really want to talk to those foreigners who are shopping, but I dare not. I'm afraid people will ignore you and lose face, and I'm afraid I can't understand what others say. Because we are strangers to each other, let alone foreigners, China people come forward to say hello when they don't know each other in the street and look at you with strange eyes like thieves. This is the truth I summed up myself, so I think since I can't force it, let it be. First of all, you should practice your spoken English well. Even if you pass CET-6, it doesn't mean that your English level is high. So you should read more oral books and watch more original movies. The more you live, the better. Collect a lot of daily conversations from movies and say them as skillfully as you say your own name, such as "What's your name? Thank you! " That's natural, and then you have to say to your family, I don't think you are ashamed to talk to your parents, are you? You say an English sentence, you just tell them your Chinese meaning. You can also practice your Chinese-English communication in this way. Then you say the same thing to your best friend, because they won't laugh at you for being wrong. Everyone knows that speaking English well is a very good thing. In this way, if you say the same thing to different people, your fear will gradually decrease and your speech will be more natural and fluent. Since you can speak Chinese well with others, you can certainly speak English well. Secondly, find your favorite original movie, write your lines, and then become an actor yourself. For example, on a Roman holiday, you can be a princess, and when your minister and the actor you meet by chance talk to you, you can be the princess's answer. Practice alone at home, and no one will laugh at you. And all kinds of movies have different English accents. You are talking to these international big-name stars. How wonderful! Do you still care about an ordinary foreigner on the street? "I am a master who talks to big-name stars every day!" As long as you are familiar with the environment, you won't be nervous when you speak. It's just a matter of proficiency. Also, if you really meet foreigners, it is natural to be nervous at first, and foreigners know this. They will also slow down to communicate with you. If you are used to saying a few words, you won't be nervous. Then you tell him (her) that he (she) can seldom communicate with foreigners, so speaking English is bound to be a little nervous, and some of them can't even speak it. They can understand. If they don't understand, you can just speak your purest and most fluent Chinese, which will confuse them and be great! Furthermore, if there is an English corner attended by foreigners or a foreign teacher's oral teaching, you can attend it, in order to get in touch with foreigners and overcome your fears. In fact, we are all human beings. If you are familiar with it, you will naturally say. If you can't get in touch with any foreigners around you, practice speaking English with your relatives, friends or good colleagues in your future work. If you talk too much, you won't be clumsy When I am not in contact with foreigners, I usually speak English with my colleagues and friends. My purpose is not whether they can understand, but to practice speaking skillfully. Maybe if I say the same thing in a few days, the other party will simply reply to me. That's not important. My aim is to speak naturally and fluently. It's like saying good morning, how are you? See you tomorrow. Can I help you? I'm leaving now! I need your help. "It's natural, so when I meet foreigners, I won't be nervous when I say this. When I take a bunch of things, I will say to my colleague, "Can you hold this for me? Can you hold this for me? "Although I didn't speak fluently for the first time because I was nervous, I will keep repeating this sentence, and then I will find another opportunity to say this sentence to this colleague. When I am proficient with this person, I will ask someone else to say this sentence again until I am no longer nervous and fluent when I say this sentence to others. Listen to English news more often, and don't think about what the word just said means when listening. What does this sentence mean? Your listening should be synchronized with the news broadcast, because English news speaks very fast. Only when you are familiar with this speed, and then you listen to the speed of daily communication, will you find that you really listen to every word, so you will be calm. Moreover, listening to English news is a great exercise for reaction ability. Don't think you can understand every word. My friend stayed abroad for four years, and it was almost a pleasure to take the IELTS test after he came back. However, watching CCTV9 English news is still difficult to understand, but it does not affect communication. If you work in a foreign company in the future, all this will become natural. There are many foreign colleagues there, and the environment forces you to say nothing. When there is no such environment, talk to yourself, family, colleagues and boyfriends in class. There is no other way!