Sense of security: exchange efforts with life in an equivalent way

a c: an inch of comfort and an inch of meat

what is the sense of security?

"A sense of security is an equivalent exchange with your own efforts and life." Xu Jiru of I am an orator said so.

1

In the year of graduation, the girl Macey worked as a planner in a startup company. She had less money, more jobs, was far from home, worked overtime, stayed up late and often suffered from insomnia.

Students either went to the bank or entered the education industry, or entered a well-established unit or went to a private enterprise with good welfare.

She was advised that startups are easy to close down, and even if the above two situations don't happen, it's normal to die suddenly according to the degree of overtime. It's too insecure. Quit your job and work in a higher-paying industry.

Macey refused.

3,2 salary, five insurances and overtime to make up for dinner, which Macey thinks is worth it.

Unlike other students, Macey studied advertising planning, but she was introverted and inarticulate. She was interviewed by several companies before she got the position in that small company, and she was the only one in the planning department.

There are younger brothers and sisters at home who are studying and have jobs, which means that they can help the family solve the problem of living expenses for younger brothers and sisters. Like grasping at straws, she did her best in this position.

if no one takes it, she will consult her brothers and sisters in the same major; If the customer is not satisfied, she will change it. If the working hours can't be changed, she will bring it back to the rental house to change it. She joined various exchange groups and read professional books over and over again; Go to a foreign website to learn similar advertising copywriting ...

More than a year has passed, and students in the class frequently complain and jump ship. Her salary rose to more than 5,, and she became a department manager. She took two people with her, and she also got options from the company.

Some people began to envy her, saying that she had a good eye and wanted to grow up with a good company.

Macey said it was luck.

other students work for money, and more money, of course, she also works for money, but knowing her own skills, copywriting planning is what she likes, and it is only temporary to suffer a little, and there is still some hope.

If I had resigned and changed careers, I don't know when I blocked the road that seemed to make a lot of money. If she quits her job and has no job, she will have no money to eat next month, and her siblings will starve together.

The job gave her the greatest sense of security: the right to live in the city, and she firmly believed that every effort would be reflected in the performance appraisal next month.

If you have a job to support yourself, the harder you work, the better your life will be. This is Macey's sense of security. Fortunately, she can see the effect in a short time.

roommate c, it's not too much to describe what happened in the past year.

I used to work as a copywriter in a first-tier city with a monthly salary of 3, yuan. After the probation period, my family changed, so I had to resign and go home to take care of my sick mother and young brother. The family was in financial difficulties, so she found a job as a photographer in a local media.

drive home for 4 minutes by motorcycle at noon to cook for your family, and then ride back to work in the city.

She said that she was most afraid of the leaders' meeting, which meant that she could not go home to cook in time and her family would go hungry.

I often work overtime at night. A C drives back to the village from downtown and passes through a wasteland. Although she looks safe, she is worried that the gangsters don't know her true colors in the dark and have evil thoughts.

that day was really scary.

Even so, she tells us jokes with a smile every day.

she has the ability to tell you sad stories as jokes.

once, she brought her mother for a follow-up visit. After we settled our mother in the hospital, we had a meal together.

A C said that she would resign next month. The damn boss knew that she had passed the probation period and gave her a probation salary of 25. She smiled and said that she had discovered a secret: I was always on probation for half a year after graduation, and my salary never exceeded 3, ... Wait for me, and I will definitely come back.

Look at her face full of alcohol. I smiled and suddenly felt very sad.

a friend asked her, what if your family keeps doing this? Are you going to keep doing this?

A C replied: One step is one step. I don't believe it can be worse. Wait, it will be fine.

At that time, I was afraid that the day when A C got better was far away, but I felt extremely guilty. I always shouted that my work was hard, my task suddenly came down, I had no personal time, my salary was not high, my welfare was not good, and I felt insecure. Compared with C's turbulent life, this is nothing.

fortunately, now C has settled down in a newspaper in his hometown. I have to finish the task of interviewing and writing articles every day, but the working hours are free and the salary is acceptable, which is very appetizing for her.

She said that when she saw the news of the sudden death of such a multimedia person, she was afraid that she would die soon.

I said, I'm not afraid. I can tell at a glance that your life is hard.

there is a kind of domineering spirit in A C: "Difficulties come to me, and the difficulties are solved".

I firmly believe in her optimism, hard work and tenacity.

Fortunately, life hasn't mistreated her, and her mother's illness has improved, so she doesn't have to take time off to take her mother to see a doctor. After her brother goes to school, she doesn't have to be afraid of not going back to cook and starving him. Because of her professional counterparts, she is good at learning at work and has some achievements.

Her life is no different from those of us who eat, sleep, fall in love and work overtime to talk about our ideals.

In her words, there is still time to go surfing.

I like Wu Junru's sentence in The Thief of the Years: Always believe in being a man.

A C put this sentence into practice and went in the direction he wanted.

Then, I also told myself that to be a man, I always believe that I will improve something if I work so hard, and I always believe that life will develop in a good direction.

3

People are afraid of instability.

so people are afraid of insecurity.

So people always have stubborn habits.

Jimmy said: Habit makes people feel a sense of security, because you will see the same scenery, take the same road, arrive at the same place and do the same job by patrolling the track you like.

but you don't know what this sense of security will make you miss?

At the Chinese New Year party, Xiaolan, who works in the county bank, said that she resigned.

We are surprised. Didn't we beat more than 1 opponents into the post after numerous screening examinations? Didn't you say that the treatment and welfare level is good? How can you resign so easily?

Xiaolan smiled helplessly: You don't know, in fact, my work benefits are not that good. Work is from 9: a.m. to 7: p.m., and it says that it will be finished at 5: , and it will be counted after work. The business assessment of hundreds of thousands of deposits every month has never reached the standard ... < P > Will you be fired for this?

no.

The key point is that my work is so boring. The company is full of uncles and aunts in their forties and fifties, and the aging is very serious. No one plays with me. You all work hard in big cities, and I live a life of two points and one line every day.

going to work every day is like being imprisoned. You can't leave the door, and you are not free at all. One day at work, it was very cold and I was very free. I saw the sunshine outside through the glass window. I wanted to bask in the sun, but I couldn't.

I can't go out even if I'm too busy. I can only curl up in that dark corner and stare at the sunshine outside, feeling so sad.

so what are you going to do next?

I want to go to Guangzhou, go back to media work, and throw myself into the big wave of market economy. I am not afraid of hardship, but I am afraid of not being free.

Later, I learned that Xiaolan had broken up with her boyfriend two months before the party because she was away from her boyfriend.

It suddenly dawned on me that Xiaolan, who resigned in the name of freedom, might not be afraid of not being free, but that she walked slower than her peers.

this is her greatest sense of insecurity.

Perhaps it is that sense of insecurity and unknown possibilities that makes her want to toss for a while when she can.

Only by running forward nonstop can you get rid of the mudslide that life pours down from time to time, gain a foothold in the turbulent torrent of great changes, and get an equivalent exchange of capital when life bargains with you.

Only by making constant efforts can laughter have a sense of security in life.

If life is turbulent at this moment, and you feel hard, but your heart is full, congratulations, you are trying your best to get the capital that is equivalent to life.