My girlfriend and I have very different family backgrounds, but hers is a wealthy family. Can we last long?

Actually, I don’t want to offend you, but this society is very realistic. The chance of lasting long-term is really not very high. Even if it succeeds, it will be very difficult, especially boys who will endure to pay more.

The obstacles from a girl’s parents will be the biggest difficulty you face. They will definitely not easily marry their daughter to a boy who is much poorer than his family. First, how can your pampered daughter be willing to let her suffer hardships with you? The second is that she is not from the right family. The girl's family always associates with people who are equally wealthy, and there will be some comparisons between them. Marrying your daughter to you will make her parents feel very faceless and worthless. . Maybe you think you are pestering the girl because you want her family's money. Her parents will put a lot of pressure on the two of you and be sarcastic and sarcastic towards you. Most men can't stand this. It will also prevent a girl from meeting you, force her to go on a blind date, etc. You must think about these obstacles in advance.

Secondly, there will be a big gap between you and your girlfriend’s lifestyle habits, etc. She comes from a good family and is used to spending money lavishly. Maybe in her eyes, it is normal to spend 700 to 800 yuan to buy a lipstick. It is also common to spend 500 to 600 yuan for a Western meal. Boys can afford it once or twice, but time After a long time, you will feel tired, stressed and out of breath. And girls will also be dissatisfied with you, and it is very likely that she can't stand living a normal life with you.

Finally, there is the objection of your parents. It seems that finding a rich daughter-in-law is a great thing, but they have to bear the looks of the girl's parents. It's better if your girlfriend is sensible. If you are not sensible, you will be asked to serve her like your aunt. They feel sorry for their son and will object.