Do you still have four great events in the life of the ancients?

The ancients said that there are four great things to be proud of in life: when I was the number one scholar, I spent the night in my bridal chamber and met my old friends after a long drought.

These four victories can be said to be the happiest moments in life that the ancients dreamed of.

But now I see it but I don't think so! Can't help some nameless sigh!

Say the first thing first: do it for the first time!

It used to be the biggest dream of many young people. Regardless of the ancients or the present people, the dream of being admitted to a university is like a perch jumping over the dragon gate, and it is like a fairy who has been cultivated into a positive fruit and can finally become an immortal. Although he can't guarantee a rich life, he also has a golden rice bowl, which was once enviable.

I heard that once a student was angry because he missed the college entrance examination by 0 or 5 points, and committed suicide because he missed the college entrance examination by one point. It can be seen that people cared about the university just like they cared about life, as if there was no other way to go in this life except to go to college.

But now, college students are like leeks in the field, and they can't cut off one crop after another. Unless you are from one of the famous universities in Tsinghua Peking University, there is still some value, but no one can guarantee that you will have a good job after graduation and you can easily live a comfortable life with that diploma. Graduates from other ordinary universities are unemployed, and it is difficult to find a decent job, let alone earn a lot of money ... So "to beno. 1" is now low in gold content and is no longer the most proud thing in people's minds.

Talk about the second pride: wedding night!

The reason why the ancients said that the wedding night is something to be proud of is because the men and women of the ancients did not give and receive, and lovers hardly had the opportunity to meet before the wedding night, so they especially looked forward to the wedding night and finally met each other ... How can they not be expected and proud?

Now men and women can associate casually, and some can even live together at will. Although some lovers have not held a wedding, they have lived together like husband and wife ... What do you think is the mystery, expectation and surprise of the wedding night?

Third: the long drought meets the rain!

This is something that the ancients can be proud of, because the ancients depended on the sky for food, and when it didn't rain, people starved to death. Of course, it is gratifying to meet the rain after a long drought.

But now, people no longer rely on the weather to get food. No matter how long it doesn't rain, we still have groundwater! There are so many deep wells, who is afraid of who! Even if it doesn't rain, you will still have a bumper harvest every year, and God will not be proud of it!

Fourth: Meet an old friend in another country.

Hmm! Well, the ancients couldn't come back for a long time because of inconvenient transportation. Of course, they miss their hometown. Besides, few people travel far and rarely see old friends, so it is natural to meet a fellow villager.

Nowadays, it is as convenient for people to go out as to visit. People who go out to do business and work are everywhere. No matter how far away you are, you can go home quickly without homesickness. Even meeting fellow villagers is as common as meeting at home. What's so surprising?

Besides, even if you meet an old friend you haven't seen for a long time, if you are better than others, you may be afraid that others will bother you. If you are worse than others, you may be afraid that your old friends will laugh at you! It's too late to hide Ha! I'm proud of it!

So in the eyes of the ancients, there is almost nothing to be proud of now! I feel a little disappointed when I think about it, so what is there to be proud of now? Anything else?

Yes, you can be proud of having a car and a house, but not a loan. Otherwise, the donkey dung and eggs are light outside, I don't know how bleak the store is, and the hard days of repaying the loan are still long! Take your time!

Don't be too proud of having a wife. In this age of divorce and infidelity, today is your wife, and tomorrow may not be your wife!

Be careful when you are strong. As the saying goes, the heights are too cold! One wrong step is like falling into an abyss.

Don't be complacent when you get rich. Now money comes and goes quickly, and you have to live to enjoy the money you earn!

People! Although life is getting better and better, people are getting more and more tired, and it is hard to be proud of it! I can't figure it out anyway!

I don't know which one of you is proud of. Tell me! Let's all do it! Proud! Ha ha!