Why is love at first sight not credible?

This is a question of probability. Why do we eulogize pure love since ancient times? Because pure love is too little in real life. Then why is love at first sight desirable? Because the probability of love at first sight is too low.

First of all, according to the research, the probability that a person can really meet his ideal type is one in ten thousand; But the number of truly effective interpersonal relationships in a person's life is about 100 to 150. Of course, with the development of the internet in modern society, there may be more, but it is a hundred times worse than 10000 people. Therefore, in terms of probability alone, it is difficult to be reliable to meet someone who falls in love at first sight.

Secondly, even if we are lucky enough to meet someone who falls in love at first sight and fall in love, the probability of successfully entering marriage is only 50%.

Imagine that there are 10000 couples who are not in love at first sight, then according to the 50% success rate, 5000 couples will eventually enter the marriage hall; There is only one couple who fall in love at first sight. If they finally get married successfully, they are only a part of that 500 1. If they don't get married successfully, the whole army will be wiped out.

Finally, it is not that love at first sight is unreliable, but that its probability is unreliable. Compared with 1 and 10000, there is really no comparability.

As for, some people say that the feeling of running water is more reliable and credible, but it is not. Whether your relationship is a long-term model or a love at first sight model, there are only two results: success and failure. From this perspective, success and imperfection are only 50% each, and no one will be better.

The possibility of a long stream of water is becoming more and more indifferent and diluted; Love at first sight can last a long time, Mika. So a relationship doesn't care whether it is love at first sight, as long as it is sincere, it is worth your investment and enjoyment.