Is your mother-in-law really good to you? What two little things can you see?

For a long time, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been difficult to get along with. Most mother-in-law always think that daughter-in-law is here to rob her son.

Mother-in-law can't see that her son is kind to her daughter-in-law, and her daughter-in-law can't send her son to work. After all, they dare not boss their sons around like this. How could foreign women?

Therefore, most mother-in-law can't treat their daughter-in-law as their own family, and there will always be more or less friction in life.

In addition, I was born in different families, and there are communication problems between generations, so the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law naturally becomes a historical issue.

The relationship between people is mutual. When the mother-in-law loves her daughter-in-law, the daughter-in-law will certainly honor her mother-in-law. Mother-in-law treats her daughter-in-law as her daughter, and her daughter-in-law will treat her mother-in-law as her mother, except, of course, those who are arrogant and unreasonable and lack moral integrity.

In life, as long as you observe carefully, it is easy to tell whether your mother-in-law is really good to you.

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When a husband and wife quarrel, does the mother-in-law talk about things instead of people?

Mother-in-law loves her son more most of the time, so when a husband and wife quarrel, her attitude is very important. At this time, it is the easiest to see whether the mother-in-law is really good to you.

As soon as Chun Yan married into Shen Cong's family, her mother-in-law told Chun Yan that if Shen Cong dared to bully Chun Yan in the future, she must tell her to help Chun Yan clean up Shen Cong.

At that time, Chun Yan thought her mother-in-law was joking to make her happy, because she just got married, and her mother-in-law probably just meant it, so as not to make Chun Yan feel too unfamiliar. After all, all mothers in the world are the same. How can a mother help a married man instead of protecting her son?

At first, they lived a sweet marriage, until after the sweet period of marriage, Shen Cong began to love Chun Yan less than at first.

Every day when Shen Cong comes home, he takes off his socks, lies on the sofa, watches TV and plays with his mobile phone. When he was thirsty, he asked Chun Yan to pour him water. When he was hungry, he asked Chun Yan to cook for him.

Over time, Chun Yan was annoyed. She has to go to work, too, and she is tired after work. When she comes home, Shen Cong doesn't help with the housework, but she is always bossing her around, which makes her very angry.

After coming home from work, Chun Yan's long-standing emotion finally broke out.

Chun Yan is in her physiological period, and she is not feeling well. So when he came home from work, Chun Yan said he was not feeling well and asked Shen Cong to cook, but Shen Cong said he was tired from work, so he ordered takeout.

Chun Yan was very angry and began to complain about his dissatisfaction. Shen Cong didn't expect to order takeout, and he was too lazy to argue with Chun Yan.

This happened when my mother-in-law came to visit their home. Mother-in-law patted Shen Cong on the back, scolded Shen Cong for being inconsiderate, and ordered Shen Cong to wash vegetables and cook at once. When Shen Cong saw his mother lose her temper, she went to cook.

Mother-in-law knew that Chun Yan was uncomfortable during her physiological period and immediately gave Chun Yan a brown sugar Jiang Shui. She also told Chun Yan that if Shen Cong dared to do it again, she would come and punish him. This moved Chun Yan so much that her eyes turned red at once.

From then on, whenever something was wrong with Shen Cong, Chun Yan would tell her mother-in-law, and her mother-in-law would teach Shen Cong a lesson, which made Shen Cong doubt that she was not his mother's own.

If her mother-in-law helps her parents, she is a reasonable mother-in-law; If your mother-in-law is on your side in everything, she must be sincere to you.

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Did your mother-in-law take good care of you when you gave birth?

After giving birth to a baby, a woman will be weak and need to be nursed back to health. However, in the process of nursed back to health, she has to take care of the newborn baby and feed her milk every three or four hours, so she always has a bad rest.

In addition to physical discomfort, pregnant women also have psychological discomfort.

Because there is a new member in the family, does the whole family turn around and ignore that mom is the one who needs more care? This makes pregnant women have a great psychological gap and are prone to postpartum depression.

At this time, it is easy to tell whether the mother-in-law is really good to you.

At the moment Linda came out of the delivery room with her children, her father-in-law, husband and sister-in-law all rushed to the children, and only her mother-in-law came to her side, stroking her forehead and saying with distress, "Thank you, son."

This sentence made Linda's eyes red and her heart warm. She felt that at least someone cared about her.

After returning home, because Linda was in the second month, it was still inconvenient to move or something. Mother-in-law cooks some chicken soup and fish soup for Linda every day, telling Linda not to touch cold water, saying that she is afraid that she will get sick in the future, just like her.

When the child is crying, the mother-in-law tries her best to help her. The child really needs a mother, and her mother-in-law will let Linda hold the child by herself.

Linda couldn't see that her mother-in-law was old, so she was so worried that she said to her mother-in-law, "Mom, it's okay. I can do something by myself. "

But her mother-in-law said, "You don't understand when you have a baby for the first time. A woman with a good confinement was born again, and she couldn't sit well in all kinds of backaches. I have been there before, and I know that you still have to take care of yourself. "

Linda felt very warm after hearing her mother-in-law's words, and felt that her mother-in-law was like her own mother.

Many mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are most likely to have conflicts in the second month, leading to the breakdown of husband and wife's feelings.

Women are the most sensitive and vulnerable when they are unwell, and need the care and love of others. If the mother-in-law can treat you like her own child at this moment, then she really treats you.

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A reasonable mother-in-law will stand in the middle, balance things between you and her son, and get along well with you, lest her son become a sandwich biscuit.

And a mother-in-law who is really good to you will always tell her son to be good to you and she will be good to you.

Because she has been there before, she knows how many fears and maladjustments a girl has to overcome when she enters a strange family from a familiar family. She will take care of you, understand you and support you in many ways, so that you can truly become a part of this new family.