My neighbor’s kids are making all sorts of noise and being unreasonable, what should I do?

There are indeed naughty children in life, and it is difficult to convince them with reason. Often, as soon as you finish speaking, he agrees to do well, but then you turn around and it's still the same.

Generally speaking, there are the following reasons for this situation:

First, the parents are weak in love and let them do everything. They are reluctant to beat or scold, which has been cultivated since childhood. I have given up my unruly and willful habits, and I am the master. I can do whatever I want and no one can control me.

The second is that they are in the rebellious period of youth. They have a fire in their hearts and have nowhere to vent it, so they use this method to yell and jump, making people uneasy, in order to gain other people's attention, or to challenge other people's attention. Screaming and cursing to find balance in the heart.

No matter which method is used, it is annoying. There are three methods you can try:

One is to go to his parents, and the mother can’t explain it. Then go to his father, and the father says If there is no solution, I will go to the neighbors, the neighborhood committee aunt, the property management company, and even the police station. I will go to any place I can to create pressure from public opinion. I do not believe that they can resist the public opinion.

The second is to say loudly, accusing the naughty child of all the pain he has brought to him, and that he is going crazy and going crazy. What to do, what to do, make the problem more serious, I believe parents will think about it seriously and advise their children.

The third is to go directly to the naughty child and start to reason with him, patiently, and every day. I think no matter how naughty the child is, he will not think about it seriously. Uncle talks to him every day, yes It’s not about whether you really did something wrong or whether you should correct it. After all, he is a child. I have said it several times and I believe that the child will definitely correct himself.

In short, as long as you present facts and reason, the problem will definitely be solved.

Nowadays, when many things still rely on the laws of the forest, there is a market for being unreasonable and arrogant.

Especially when it comes to neighborly relations, conflicts may become difficult to get along with in the future if they are discussed in detail.

I also encountered this once. When my child was just born, there was a tenant upstairs. There was a child in the house who was very noisy and roller skates on the floor of the house. I went to look for him. Many times, the attitude was okay the first few times. I talked about the child and then said I was sorry. I thought it was over, but it was not. The next day was the same. I went to look for him again, and it was obvious that the family was a little impatient. He talked about the child again, but this time he didn’t say sorry. He looked at me directly and closed the door. It made me feel embarrassed for a while. On the third day, the sound of the waves was still there, so I knocked on the door again. This time, the person who greeted me didn't say "children", but directly said, "What's wrong with the children playing at home?" I was also at a loss. Later, I also searched for the real estate agent and even called the police, but to no avail.

Until one day, the agent came and knocked on the door with a family, saying that the client wanted to buy the house upstairs, but there was no one upstairs. My house had the same layout as the one upstairs, and I wanted to show the client the layout. When I saw the client following the agent with an expressionless face, I guessed that he was a difficult client, so I replied directly, "No, and there are people who like this apartment type, and then I closed the door."

A few days later, we were still an agent, but the client had changed. As soon as the agent told us his intention, the client behind him smiled and said, let’s just take a look in the living room and not enter the bedroom. I hurriedly welcomed him in. It's okay. You can take a look at it as you like. This apartment is transparent from the north to the south and has good lighting and ventilation. You can take a look at it as you like.

More than a month later, there was no more noise upstairs.

A white swan cannot fly out of a henhouse! Education is definitely related to family. There is a saying in my hometown, which father raises his son, and which mother gives birth to his daughter. As parents are, so are their children. When you encounter this kind of child, most of the time you go to the parents to find no solution, and you may even get angry. There are evil neighbors at home, and I have trouble sleeping and eating. If things go on like this, no matter how well-educated people are, they will go crazy, and some people are even forced from ladies to shrews! In ancient times, why did Meng's mother move three times? Don’t you just want a good growing environment? What to do? If there is poor communication and negotiation, it will be impossible to tolerate it, and it will not be able to fight. Even if you call the police or file a lawsuit, it will probably be difficult to cure the problem. Is there only one way to move? For ordinary people, it's easier said than done. I have a buddy who had a similar experience. His method was to rent a house by himself for a year and rent his house to a few young men from other places at a low price. The requirement was to use a hammer to knock on the iron plate on the wall after 12 o'clock every night. A year later, the neighbor passed away.

People say: Children are a mirror of their parents. What the child is like is what the parents are like. If you want to correct the problems, you should first look at the problems with your own children. Presumably none of your neighbors are very well-educated or well-educated! I see that you have communicated several times, but to no avail. This is obviously not a child's problem, but an adult's problem! Also, you have to understand that in today's society, there are all kinds of people, and unreasonable people are everywhere.

Do you live in a community building? Maybe other neighbors are also noisy, but they are not as brave as you. I very much agree with your behavior. If you are disturbed, you should report it. Instead of letting him feel that it is natural for him to argue and make a fuss!

Let me tell you a real example. I go to elementary school upstairs, stay up every night, play basketball, and make a lot of noise. Every night it clangs. I couldn't bear it anymore that day, so I went upstairs to remind them. The neighbors also sympathized with us and apologized. From that night until now, we haven't heard any noise. What does this mean? It shows that the education of parents determines everything! When you meet good neighbors, of course you can solve the problem through negotiation. When you meet the kind of unreasonable ones, just like you, don’t say anything, just call the police, just say they are disturbing the residents, and you don’t need to be detained for a week. , I see you are living a bold life, why, this is your community? You can make trouble as much as you want? Can you ask it to agree? It’s really a society ruled by law, who is afraid of whom!

That’s really a headache [cover face][cover face][cover face] I won’t go into the specific details. It’s probably just that there is a strong man upstairs. The little girl is practicing handstands, somersaults, playing, singing, running and jumping at home. We communicated many times to ask us to be more patient, and we really endured it again and again. The most outrageous time was on the night of the fifth day of the Chinese New Year. I was sleeping when the crystal lamp in the living room clicked. I thought there was an earthquake. When I listened carefully, I saw people dancing upstairs. I almost lost my mind at that time. I forgot all about tolerance and tolerance. . First, I took a video of the crystal lamp shaking and sent it to the owner group, naming their home directly. Then, I probably did the most serious thing in my life [cover my face] [cover my face] [cover my face]. It was still snowing outside in the winter, so I put on my down jacket, brought my baby warmer, picked up the small bench, and I got on I went upstairs, knocked on the door, kept knocking on the door, and I stopped sleeping. I couldn’t sleep well anyway. I kept knocking until they called the police, and then they called the police! ! ! I was willing to go all out. I just remembered one sentence: If he played the piano until 2 o'clock in the night, then I should knock on the door at 4 o'clock in the night and tell him that he played well [pick nose] [pick nose] [pick nose]

< p> I am happy to answer this question. What should I do if my neighbor’s children are noisy and their parents are unreasonable? I have three solutions. Let me analyze it for you below.

This method is to take the initiative to come to the door and discuss the solution with the parent opposite. If the child is sick, then we can understand and it will be fine after a while. If the child is a simple naughty child, what about us? You should also communicate well with his parents. Before communicating, rehearse what you want to say in your mind, or talk to family members first to ensure that the communication is clear and well-founded without making the other parent feel intimidating.

You have had many good communications with them. If they still do not correct it, it is their fault. At this time, you can take another approach.

If the previous good communication is ineffective, then further measures are needed. You are definitely not the only one who is being disturbed by his children. You can contact other neighbors and negotiate with them together. If the other side is still making trouble unreasonably, then contact the property management company and ask them to mediate the solution. What if property negotiation doesn’t work? Then there is only the ultimate solution.

This is the last solution and one of the ultimate solutions. The neighbor's naughty child is noisy and refuses to change despite repeated admonitions, and communication is ineffective. Being noisy all day long causes you to suffer from mental weakness, lack of sleep, and seriously affects your life. At this time, you can call the police and seek help from the police. The arrival of the police will definitely make them find their way back. If this doesn't work, then I suggest you move or install soundproofing equipment, because this kind of person is no longer worthy of being a human being. Don't care too much about animals.

The above are the three major solutions I have summarized. I hope they can help you.

Do you have a child? There is no need to worry about the child. Communicate slowly.

I am harassed by the noise from the family upstairs every day. Running, bouncing, and knocking are all facing each other. I haven’t gone to see him for a month. First, I understand that he is a child after all, and he is naturally lively and active. During the epidemic, I held it back at home for more than a month and tried not to let him move. It was just a kind of treatment for him. Torture makes him pay attention to the impact on the downstairs anytime and anywhere. This is a bit demanding for a child. Of course, the quality of the parents is ignored here. Therefore, it is the same torture, but we adults should bear it a little more. Second, since we live in a building, some noise is unavoidable. If there were relatively high-quality parents upstairs, they would have reminded their children to reduce interference. Since there is no one to care about it, it means that parents do not have this awareness at all. Even if they look for it, there may be some noise. You have to restrain yourself, but who can guarantee the effect. If you really encounter someone with poor quality and try harder for you, there is still nothing you can do. Even if you call in the real estate agent or the police, it is just persuasion.

Don’t do it to yourself!

It is normal for children to cry. Who has never cried as a child, but if it disturbs others and how to deal with it, it is an adult's problem. If Lingju lodges a protest, no matter what the reason is, if it disturbs others, it should apologize. It is Lingju and they can communicate face to face.

Treat them with Buddhist magnanimity and humility. Children are not sensible after all. It's the children who are often splashing around upstairs. It is the parents of the children who are shameful because of their lack of quality. Usually such unqualified parents are farmers who have just moved from the countryside to the city. They thought they would still live in a large courtyard in their own countryside. He pulled up stools as he pleased and even played with bouncing balls. When you encounter such bad neighbors, you can only be magnanimous. The louder it gets, the more unreasonable it becomes. Dogs bite people. People cannot bite dogs. So it is true…………