Effective parent-child communication? These 1 positive words are enough!

1) why should we praise our children?

There is an old saying that "a dutiful son is born under a stick", which reflects the stick-style family education, a way of educating children by corporal punishment.

First of all, educating children with sticks often leads to their psychological behaviors of timidity, cowardice, shrinking back and inferiority, and even looks down on their parents, doesn't care about what their parents say and talks back.

Besides, children learn to lie and cheat in order to avoid being beaten. Seriously, it will cause psychological shadows, which will eventually lead to behaviors such as children's hard feelings.

Sticky education will not play a positive role in children's future, while encouraging and praising education methods can arouse children's thinking and inner growth. Melting a child's heart with love is far more useful than hitting a child.

2) how to praise is more effective?

The words "smart, beautiful and powerful" all belong to the general appraisal appreciation, focusing on the results.

If we want to encourage children to believe in themselves and continue to stick to it, we should avoid these lexical walls with general evaluation meanings and praise children as "smart" for their good study methods, good study habits, efforts made by children for this matter and things that have been improved through hard work.

For example, when we see that a child has learned a new method to solve a problem, he immediately uses this method when doing the next problem. At this time, we can praise the child: "I think the method you just learned will be used immediately, and you will draw inferences, baby, you are so smart!"

When parents describe their feelings in an appreciative tone, they can affirm their children's efforts by describing them, help them believe in themselves, cherish their strengths more, and more importantly, give them the courage to continue their efforts.

3) how to praise the baby correctly?

As a treasure mother in the new era, we must raise babies scientifically! The necessary skill is positive discipline!

here are 1 kuawa sentences for everyone. Smart parents have already liked it and collected it!

1. Believe in yourself first, and then others will believe in you!

2. You really work hard, please keep it up!

3. It was difficult, but you didn't give up!

4. This method is innovative and worthy of recognition!

5. I believe you!

6. It's great to respect other people's ideas!

7. You are very observant!

8. Nothing, don't worry, take your time!

9. Mom believes in you!

1. Forget the failure, but remember the lessons from it.

11. I believe you will do better next time!

12, full of self-confidence, and hard work, all difficulties will be solved!

13. Honesty is the first virtue of being a man!

14. Mom saw your efforts!

15. Come on, I will always be by your side!

16. You did a great job!

17. Self-confidence is the first step towards success.

18. Did you make this? It's incredible!

19. You have made great progress, which is beyond your mother's imagination!

2. You are very talented to express your feelings so appropriately!

21. You are so amazing that I didn't even think of it!

22. It's amazing to take responsibility!

23. If you want to do it, just do it!

24. You are very independent and persistent, and your mother is very proud of you!

25. Mom will always support you!

26. I'm glad to see you so sensible!

27. I believe you can do it well. If you need help, I will always be by your side!

28. You are really my right-hand man!

29. Keep working hard and believe in yourself, and you will do better!

3. You did a good job! We are proud of you!

31. You can make your own choice!

32. You must have worked very hard to get where you are today!

33. Mom loves you and will always love you!

34. I think you've got the hang of it!

35. You will be the person you want to be!

36. Mom believes that you keep your word!

37. I can see your progress!

38. Your bullet is very good. It would be better if you could be more skilled and fluent!

39. Can you still play the music you played yesterday for me?

4. Yes, that's it!

41. It's great that you can reflect and be willing to change!

42, you have done very well!

43, your idea is very good, I agree!

44, this is the best time!

45. Tell me if you have any good ideas!

46, you are getting more and more amazing!

47. I knew you could do it!

48. You are really making progress!

49. You will do better next time!

5. I'm so glad you have such a performance!

51. You are very imaginative!

52. You see, through hard work, you have succeeded. Congratulations!

53. You are very important to me!

54. Great, I agree!

55. You are really making progress!

56. I'm really proud of you!

57. Your performance today made everyone happy!

58. You are such a polite child!

59, I see, you are working hard!

6. Yes, this word is quite difficult to write. It's okay. Mom sometimes makes mistakes. Just write more!

61. Never mind, let's sum up our experience and work hard next time!

62. "since heaven gave the talent, let it be employed!." Please believe that you can do it!

63. It doesn't matter if you are wrong, as long as you correct your mistakes seriously!

64. It's great that you can be the first to express your opinion!

65. Today's homework is very serious!

66. I like to see you happy!

67. You are a kind child, and your mother is proud of you!

68. You have done this very methodically and well!

69. You are the best in mom's eyes!

7. It's not easy to get up early to study. You actually did it!

71. Your idea is very good. Please say it loudly again!

72. You look the best when you work hard!

73. I know that you are heading for running all the way!

74, as long as you pay, you will get something!

75. You may not be outstanding, but you must be different!

76. One stroke and one painting are related to achievements, and every word determines life!

77. Children, the books you read today are the wings to soar tomorrow! Learn more knowledge today, and say less about begging people tomorrow!

78, the child is fine, as long as you work harder today than yesterday, as long as you do better than yesterday!

79. You will be outstanding in the end, but you must be different!

8. With your unremitting efforts, prove that you are no worse than others!

81. The meaning of hard work is that in the days to come, if you look around, you will find all the people and things you like!

82. Remember, son, no matter what difficulties you encounter, you will always be the best and your mother's pride!

83. What a good idea! This is really valuable!

84. I find that you are much more careful than before!

85. If you work hard, you will do well in the exam next time!

86. If you choose your own road, you should be responsible for yourself!

87. You are an excellent child, but why don't you dare to show your talents to everyone? Be brave! Baby!

88. If you want to beat anything first, you must learn to beat yourself!

89. Earnestness is the secret of success, and carelessness is the partner of failure!

9. Your method is really good! What a comprehensive consideration!

don't be afraid, you can do it!

92. In fact, you are a very smart and lovely child, but you have regressed in all aspects this semester! Mom/dad wants you to correct your shortcomings as soon as possible. Can you do that?

93, do it yourself, don't rely on others!

94. Because you have worked hard, even if you fail, it is wonderful!

95. This problem is a bit difficult, but I believe you have the ability to solve it!

96. With your unremitting efforts, prove that you are no worse than others!

97. If you don't give up this second, there will be hope in the next!

98, as long as you are careful, nothing can beat you!

99. You are diligent and earnest. If you are more earnest and practical, you will surely receive numerous fruits!

1. Cherish the present and come on, son!

companionship and encouragement are the driving force for a child to persist, and will also benefit him all his life.

less blame and more praise. Children can develop positively with encouragement!