Song Hye Kyo shot a short film: We need bold "trial and error" in both life and marriage. Why?

Song Huijing cut her hair short again. This time, unlike previous times, she instantly surprised netizens.

Early this morning, Song Hye Kyo Jing took a beautiful photo of herself on his social networking site. In the picture, Song Hye Kyo Jing appeared in a deep V-shaped dress with short hair, fair and bright skin and sharp eyes. The whole person looks very advanced. Netizens have commented: I didn't expect Song Hye Kyo Jing with short hair to be a different person. Later, Song Hye Kyo Jing was still in the comment area, teasing that he was only 28 years old.

I believe many girls have had their hair cut short, and I am no exception. I remember the first time I cut my hair short, that was in high school. At that time, I was under great pressure to study and didn't have time to fiddle with my long hair. In addition, shampooing is a waste of time, so I just cut it, but I regret it after cutting it.

Although the head is lighter, the shape of short hair is really ugly. There is no way, slowly continue to come back. I always had beautiful long hair before I went to work. I'm under a lot of pressure at work, so I want to cut my hair short again. However, I made the same mistake again and I'm still not satisfied with the short hair style. So for many years after that, I was afraid and silently recited the scriptures to warn myself that impulse is the devil and impulse is the devil. Until some time ago, a barber's words rekindled my hope for a haircut.

He said that no one can find the right hairstyle at once, and only by repeatedly cutting hair can you find the one that suits you best. Besides, a haircut, like learning skills, requires trial and error. You don't know what you want until you miss it. Yes, trial and error, whether in life or marriage, we all need to make bold trial and error.

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There you are at last.

Niu Niu is my classmate and best friend. After graduating from college, we went our separate ways. Although we don't get together often, as long as we have time, we will get together in a place not far from thousands of miles away.

Niu Niu is a very straightforward person, and she is informal about many things. This may be the reason why she gathers many good friends around, and of course there are many male friends.

Niu Niu was 28 years old that year, and her family forced her to get married by death. Her family is very traditional. If at the age of 25, there are still girls in the family who don't get married, they will be spurned by their neighbors. This time, her family really couldn't stand it anymore and threatened to die directly. When Niu Niu said it, I was very upset. I'm thinking, what should I do? Do you choose to listen to your family's opinions or ignore their lives? Actually, I don't want anything.

If I follow the advice of my family and marry someone casually, where is my happiness? What if I don't obey my parents and lose face? This choice of double avoidance is really hard.

When I was in distress, Niu Niu patted her thigh and said, I decided to marry my buddy for many years. Although he is a little old, he is a good man. After marriage, he should be good to me. Besides, if there is a real contradiction, he can't beat me at all. Before I knew it, Niu Niu hugged me and said, Congratulations, I'm getting married and starting a new life.

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I really don't know whether to be happy or depressed for her, but I still became her maid of honor. At the wedding, Niu Niu cried, so did I, and so did I. I don't know why she is crying, but it really hurts me. Sadly, sometimes people really have no choice.

After marriage, Niu Niu's life is still sweet. She often tells me that although the two of them are not dead and have no vows of eternal love, their lives are still very comfortable and they can respect each other. However, I always feel that something is missing, just like cooking without salt and taste. In this way, after they got along for 1 year, they secretly divorced behind their parents' backs and divorced peacefully.

Later, Niu Niu told me that she said that life was never smooth sailing, and so was marriage. I really don't know what kind of life I want if I didn't go through my last marriage. Originally, what I wanted was a tasteful and emotional life besides daily necessities.

After three years of divorce, Niu Niu really met such a person, a person with emotional appeal, connotation and love for life. Trial and error is not a will, trial and error is a choice, and trial and error is to meet a better life.

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never give up

I heard a friend talk about such a beautiful marriage. Xiaoqing, the hero, has been married three times.

In the first marriage, the man was a male chauvinist, and Xiaoqing had to listen to him. If he is slightly dissatisfied, he will swear. At first, Xiaoqing was able to influence him with inner warmth, saying, you see, the two of us came together because of fate. Looking back 300 times in my last life, we passed each other in this life. What unforgettable experiences did we experience in our last life to get each other's good feelings in this life?

Her husband was infected by Xiaoqing's words. For a long time after that, whenever her husband wanted to get angry, he could remember Xiaoqing's words and then restrain his inner impulse. However, there is a saying in this world that dogs can't change and eat shit. Xiaoqing's husband didn't resolve his anger, but restrained and suppressed it. Until finally, the volcano erupted and he began to fight, and Xiaoqing was black and blue. Later, they divorced.

In the second marriage, Xiaoqing found a very considerate and gentle woman who never got angry. But his temper is so slow that whatever he does is slow. Even if the house is on fire, he may have to slowly figure out what to take before he runs out. On one occasion, Xiaoqing's father was ill in hospital, and no one took care of him in the hospital. Xiaoqing was in a hurry to go to work, so she called her husband and said she needed his help. Xiaoqing's husband agreed without saying anything.

However, it has been three hours since he arrived at the hospital. Xiaoqing's husband said that he was planning what to bring and what to wear at home. The old man is ill, so he can't wear red from head to toe. Should he clean it again, otherwise he will be easily laughed at by others ... It is conceivable that Xiaoqing is divorced again.

Before getting married for the third time, Xiaoqing learned from the bitter experience and thought about it for a long time. Why is her marriage unhappy? What kind of marriage do I want? Finally, I come to the conclusion that I only want a person who knows cold and hot, is rational and calm, and has a little sense of responsibility. I don't want to be rich or expensive, but I hope to live on the same channel. Later, two people fell in love with Xiaoqing at the same time. A rich second generation, rich but a bit overbearing, an ordinary working class, with a child, but sincere, hardworking and responsible. Although the house is not big and the money is not much, I can always decorate the room beautifully, and I will decorate the room myself. He said that life is an attitude and a responsibility. Therefore, Xiaoqing chose the person who had no money to live an emotional life.

In this world, we have never failed. Only by constantly trying, trying and making mistakes can we finally get what we really want. Be firm in your heart and seek the best things in the world or the feelings that suit you best. Marriage is not afraid of trial and error, but afraid of not having the courage to choose.