Every personality has advantages and disadvantages, and it is your unique and unrepeatable child.

In the evening, my best friend sent me a WeChat saying that I had a headache, and then sent me a screenshot of the chat. Her son's deskmate wrote a note to his son, saying that he hoped he would die. Seven-year-olds don't know much about death. It's probably just a joke. However, his best friend's son was so sensitive and forbearing that he was too angry to speak at school. Go home and tear the note to pieces, and then tell your best friend that you are going to transfer. My girlfriend was distressed and helpless, so she had to send a WeChat to her deskmate parents, asking the children not to say that again. After reading it, I was also very distressed and a little dissatisfied with my best friend. I said I shouldn't tell your son about life, and I shouldn't tell anyone else. Don't worry too much about being said by others. And if you feel uncomfortable, you should say it at that time and let your deskmate know. The girlfriend only replied, and her personality is so silent.

I thought of my daughter of the same age. I tentatively asked, what would you do if someone wrote a note saying that you were dead? The daughter said without thinking, tell the teacher and let the teacher clean her up. If the teacher has no time to take care of it, I will write a note hoping that he will die a hundred times and never come back to earth. Although I don't agree with my daughter's violent way, as a mother, I am still a little relieved. She is really not a child who can bear hardships.

My best friend and I are two completely different personalities, but we have known each other since childhood, grew up together and witnessed each other's graduation, employment, marriage and having children. She is a nurse and her husband is a doctor, probably because of her professional relationship. The family atmosphere is patience and gentleness, and words are encouragement. She has two sons. The eldest son is the same age as my daughter. It is rare to see her angry with her son. She is always persuasive, and sometimes she will exert charm or something. I admire you for that. My husband and I have a good relationship, but in people's impressions, we are more like Wuhan couples. When flirting, you have to walk away. You are sick. I feel that cultural chromatography is much lower. Give priority to my daughter's education, but after patiently overdrawing, I was bombarded again, and I regretted every time I lost my temper. Because there is an example, I am afraid that my daughter will treat her classmates as gourd paintings. Every time her eldest son comes to my house, he doesn't rummage around like other boys. He is very polite, reading books and watching TV. Let's see her daughter. Although she has a glib tongue, she has to be sharp and not gentle enough. She often blames herself for not giving her a family with a strong cultural atmosphere. However, my best friend really appreciates my daughter's glib and straightforward personality. I hate my son a little. His understanding and gentleness are often accompanied by weakness and injustice. This is a complicated mood that only a mother can understand.

Now that I think about it, in fact, any personality has congenital inheritance and acquired environment, which has advantages and disadvantages. Parents don't have to blame themselves, let alone criticize their children too much. With a little guidance, it is good to grasp the normal scale. It is precisely because of different personalities that the present rich social composition is created, which is not a bad thing. Don't bind nature with stereotypes, but you can't indulge nature.