The antidote to life—optimism

I have watched a lot of TV dramas and movies, and many of them have a pessimistic attitude towards life, or even depression. Most of them have no hope for life, or think that the future is bleak, and feel empty, and they are just getting by. Think about it , a person's life is only 30,000 days short, and it is only one day to be happy and one day to be sad. So why don't we let optimism and love fill our inner world? As the saying goes, "If a person's heart is not filled with flowers, it will be filled with weeds."

I think the brave man in life is one who, after recognizing his own ordinaryness and ordinaryness, still maintains an optimistic and positive attitude to face life and strives to realize his own value.

In today’s fast-food era, many people’s minds are superficial, unwilling to do something seriously and eager for quick success. Students want good grades but are unwilling to spend time and energy; adults want high salaries but Defeated by my own laziness. This is not optimism, but an inability to step out of one's own comfortable circle.

Take a real person around me as an example. In my senior year of high school last year, there was a repeater. He was only five points away from the undergraduate score in the first college entrance examination, so he chose to repeat the exam. He did not He is smart and has no capital to rest on his laurels. Except for the ten minutes of eating every day, he spends all his time studying. This sounds exaggerated. Even when waiting in line for meals, he uses a vocabulary book to memorize words. He does not go to the toilet for ten minutes after class. Instead, he uses ten minutes to ask other people questions. When he gets tired of asking, he will ask another person. After his classmates have finished asking, he will go to the next class or the office to ask, regardless of whether they are annoyed or not. He has only one goal: to get into college. . He was very clear about his future and goals and maintained an optimistic attitude. Finally, he lived up to his expectations and was admitted to a second-tier school in the second college entrance examination with more than 30 points exceeding the undergraduate level.

A teacher once told us a story: a boy and a girl had been in love for several years, but they broke up due to various reasons. The girl before thought that she was loved and was very content. She doesn't want to step out of her comfort zone. She is a very good person, and falling in love delays her. After the breakup, she transformed into a "strong woman" and focused on making money and improving her abilities. From a small employee to the position of a company executive, there must have been a period of suffering after the breakup. She locked herself in her home and did not receive customers every day. People just read and study, because now she understands that she can only rely on her own excellence. Independent and self-reliant girls are really attractive. They know what they want and face life optimistically. Just work hard and leave the rest to time.

Not only that, an optimistic attitude will also affect anniversary people. No one wants to be an emotional trash can. There is no need for us to bring negative emotions to others. On the contrary, we must pass on the positive side to others. Your words and actions may affect those around you. I used to be a very sad and pessimistic person, but fortunately, I have "pistachios" around me. My friends protect me like armor. When I am unhappy, they tell jokes to make me laugh and share small things with me. , slowly, my personality has also been affected. In the past, I did not dare to talk to strangers, but now I am traveling between two cities alone, and I feel that the future is full of infinite possibilities.

Optimism is not only the antidote to life, but also a valuable asset in life. I hope everyone can discover and cherish this treasure.