How do women save themselves?

Women like Laoting in the play are rare in real life. There used to be many such women, and the education they received from childhood was that their husbands were the first priority. After marriage, all their wishes should be subject to their in-laws. Even if you are beaten and suffer indignities in your husband's family, you should submit to humiliation and move on, or you will be laughed at for divorce. Others will laugh at their parents and their children, so most of that generation are unhappy in marriage and will continue to lead a miserable life. Work hard all your life, complain, beat and scold. But they don't get respect from each other. You can only curse more and more.

For such a person, it really makes people feel angry and sad for their misfortune. Even if you try to help him get out of his misery, he will get out of your help, rejoin his misery, continue to live his sad life, and constantly complain to others about his bad life and how unfair life is to him. I never want to fight for myself, to have a brand-new life, to be my own master and to dominate my life.

This is also a kind of sadness, and others can't save it. Only when she figured it out herself can she get out of the misery. In real life, women and boys are equal now, and they have never accepted such an idea since childhood. Have the same status as men, and even do better than boys in many fields. For marriage, it is not such a performance of resignation. In line with the concept that unity is more and differences are scattered, it has gained more respect. So only oneself can be saved. Only by self-reliance and self-improvement will others respect and cherish you more. If a woman wants to think of live high's idea, she must work hard on her own, and become a dodder flower without being attached to anyone.

As a woman, you must be kind to yourself before you can be kind to your family. Be a strong and independent woman, be kind to yourself and keep your heart soft and kind. Be strong when things happen. Live proudly and take good care of your life.