The joke of microwave oven.

There is a hot topic on Zhihu: "Some words can't be used to joke with girls?"

An anonymous respondent with high votes replied:

"Your chest is quite big. Will your clothes be tight? " "..." I glanced at him coldly. "Oh, I'm kidding. I'm just praising your good figure. Ha ha ha. "

"Why didn't xx come?" "I don't know, maybe her husband couldn't get up yesterday. Ha ha ha. " "..." Although I am a bystander, I am really embarrassed.

I don't know if you have ever met a man who plays such a provocative or fancy joke. Seriously, I do. Every time I hear such words, I really want to swear every minute!

They thought their humor mobilized the atmosphere, but in fact it was extremely embarrassing and disrespectful to each other.

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This happened to my best friend a long time ago.

One day at noon, Yo-Yo put the instant noodles in the company's microwave oven for heating, and took them out in a short time.

The male colleague in the same department saw it and stood by and said, "You are so fast, are you ready?"

You smiled and replied, "Well, I like it hard."

Unexpectedly, the male colleague looked at her with a lewd smile and said, "So you like hard food, and your boyfriend knows you like it ..."

Youyou said that she was really angry at that time, but she felt that losing her temper on the spot was not good, so she choked back her anger and said, "Please don't say such things, thank you."

The male colleague probably saw that Yo-Yo was angry and quickly said, "I'm just joking with you. are you sure you meant it？ Hahahaha. "

Youyou later said to me: "I really hate boys telling colored or sexually suggestive jokes to me. Maybe it's because I'm conservative and think being teased by boys subconsciously thinks I'm frivolous, so I'm very upset when I hear similar words." I wish my boyfriend would tell me colored jokes. However, he and I are just colleagues. Does he really think such a joke is funny? "

I quite agree with you. Many boys obviously don't know us well, but their relationship with colleagues or classmates always likes to play some boring colored jokes. When they see us angry, they will say "joking", and some people will even say "Can't you take a joke?"

I'm sorry, I don't think you're really joking, even if I can't afford to joke, so what!

To tell you the truth, I always feel that I should pay attention to my own discretion sometimes. Ignorance is not fun, and humor does not mean that you don't know how to respect people.

There is a saying that is particularly right. Joking is to make people laugh, not to make people sad and then laugh.

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I remember a passage I saw in Weibo before: Men tell dirty jokes in front of women for the purpose of seduction. They are not only talking, but more importantly, they look at the facial expressions of women after talking and what kind of feedback they provide. Through the interpretation of feedback, men can think that they can test women's openness to sex, and then feel whether it is easy to get started.

Freud also said: "There is no such thing as a joke, all jokes have serious elements."

So, please remember, male compatriots, don't play colored or sexually suggestive jokes in front of girls in the future.

You think this is a joke, but we will take it seriously.

Remember, it is always better to laugh at yourself without discipline than to play jokes on others moderately.