Why do some people have a hard life after retirement?

Yes, life after retirement is really sad, because after working for decades, I am used to the tense and busy working state. Once I am idle, I feel idle and very lost.

After I retired, I went through a very sad stage. I don't know what to do every day My heart is also empty, and I feel that I have no sense of existence and that life is worthless. Later, I didn't think it would work. Are you always so depressed and not abnormal? At this time, I went out to participate in the study of dance, singing and calligraphy. In this way, my life is enriched and my heart is not hard. Now I have adapted to retirement. You can also try it like this! I hope my answer is helpful to you.

Seriously ill! How can a retired old man laugh!

Those who used to have power and status will feel sorry for their loss once they retire, but laid-off workers don't feel sad, because they are exhausted on the way to make a living and are happy until they reach retirement age.

Let me start with a joke I've heard before. A leader was depressed all day after retirement. His wife was worried about his health and asked others what to do. It is suggested that the wife write a manual before going to the vegetable market to buy food every day, and let the wife read the manual before going out. That's what my wife did. The leader smiled when he saw his wife's request for instructions, and he was never unhappy again.

The main types of sadness after retirement are as follows:

The first is the psychological gap.

It is the leaders mentioned above who are surrounded before retirement and left out after retirement. This psychological gap should be adjusted.

Another psychological gap comes from having nothing to do. I once met an old comrade who retired and came back to work for some time. Later, the unit stopped him from returning to work, and he had a stroke a month after returning home. His wife said that sometimes he suddenly got up, got dressed, wanted to go to work, and thought he was retired, so he was very depressed.

Second, there is no pension or very little pension.

Some people pay less social security and other reasons, and have less pensions to make a living. At this time, if there are many people in the family and there are many places to spend money, it is inevitable to be sad.

For retired comrades, the unit should still do a good job of appeasement.

Apart from the retirement of officials, I feel very lost. Others should be happy to retire. Once they retire, they can do what they want. Secondly, they can find jobs again, earn more money and improve their quality of life. Third, they can spend more time with their families and enjoy the happiness of human relations. Fourth, they can relax and have no pressure. They can do some public welfare undertakings. Fifth, they can walk around and so on. So, you should be happy to retire.

There are two main reasons for being in a bad mood after retirement: First, I lost my sense of value. When people are at work, work can bring value, work hard with goals, and have children at home who need to rely on you. After retirement, these two aspects no longer exist. Second, after retirement, many people are faced with illness and death, which often makes people feel empty in life, and it is difficult to be interested in anything, even if they eat, drink and wear well, it is difficult to feel happy.

Marriage is like a besieged city, so is retirement.

People outside want to go in and people inside want to come out.

That's because the pension is low (about 2000 yuan per month), and they can only make ends meet. Many people still work outside to support their families after retirement. In this case, they are not willing to retire!

I scoff at this! Many people are very sad about retirement: a, they are high before retirement, and they are sad to go home behind the times, helpless and unable to go crazy. B, this kind of person doesn't know how to do complicated things such as housework at home, but only watches. C, this kind of person is incompatible with his wife or husband or daughter-in-law, grandson, and easy to look at people. D This kind of person has no cultural accomplishment except simple lessons, and even won't tease his grandson at home or read ancient books, practice Chinese characters, post on the Internet, or even go out dancing with his old "lover". Therefore, such people have money or good health, and their days are like years, and their seats are like needles. Correct three sentences: everything is easy because I relax my mind. Strengthen self-cultivation and do more activities and exercises. Family members cooperate, share happiness and help each other when they encounter difficulties. I wish the retired old people in the world a happy and unhappy "autumn"!

I have been retired for more than a year, which is very fulfilling. There is plenty of time for reading, writing and drinking tea. Qingdao in winter, Weihai in summer, spring and autumn at will.

After retirement, I realized the freedom of time and choice. Years are quiet, but Haitang is still there.