Fan Deng read aloud-the impromptu speech has begun, and we must prepare for the performance!

Recently, I attended an art exhibition and didn't speak for a long time, so there were a lot of typos when I opened my mouth, which was embarrassing. Even because of the gfd problem, I don't have any suitable activity photos to stay.

To sum up, there are the following problems:

Recently, while listening to Fan Deng's reading, I came across the book Improvised Speech, so I listened to it over lunch. This feels good and I want to share it with you.

First of all, to make an impromptu speech well, we need to change our understanding: impromptu speech can't be done simply by opening your mouth. For example, some leaders make impromptu speeches in various scenarios, and sometimes one sentence may lead to the success or failure of a thing or the collapse of people.

Therefore, the first step is to change our thinking into "impromptu thinking"

1. Willing to lead

There needs to be a desire to infect others and pay attention to the occasion of speaking.

Pay attention to the value of your conversation, don't feel insignificant, respect yourself first, and then win the respect of others.

Never have this situation: I know everyone doesn't know me, and I don't want everyone to remember me. ...

When you speak, you should increase your confidence in the language and reject unconfident words such as "hmm", "possible" and "uncertain".

Every time you speak, you should face up to it. Don't swear words, dirty jokes and so on. Don't form such bad habits. Tell yourself: the microphone is always on!

2. Be good at listening

When talking to others, we should listen from three aspects.

The first is the most basic "listening with your body", staring at each other, leaning forward and not looking at your mobile phone or other places.

Then there is "listening with your head". While listening to each other, you should help them sort out 123 in their minds.

Finally, "listen attentively." You should be able to hear each other's emotions and have empathy.

Stay Real

No matter what the occasion, you must not make people think that you are a liar every day, but let people think that you are a real person.

Pay attention to the present and share your thoughts, beliefs and values, as well as what you have to do.

Share your feelings, happy, sad, depressed, jealous and so on.

Share your vulnerability, your helplessness and your worries.

Share your story and make your image more stereoscopic and full.

Respect others

Respect your organization, your superior manager and yourself.

Next is the highlight of the book: the speech script.

First, hold hands!

Second, the main points!

Third, the structure!

Fourth, call for action!

1? pincers

The first thing you say must be to attract everyone's attention.

Note here: Do not use the negative grip! For example, with all due respect, I am a straightforward person, I am ugly, and we have something to say.

2? general idea

It is also an opinion. Try to make a sentence clear, attractive, clear and positive.

3? structure

In order to demonstrate the main points of your speech above, there are four common types: time series, cause, method and situational response.

4? Call for action

This is also the purpose of speaking, such as finally calling on everyone to do one thing, promoting cooperation or encouraging others.

So how to make an impromptu speech?

get ready

Preparation is a long-term accumulation and deliberate preparation. The knowledge to be prepared here is as follows

1, subject knowledge related to the subject.

2. Basic literacy knowledge such as allusions, idioms and historical figures.

3. Empirical knowledge related to the theme of one's past experience.

Here is a story about his father: Li's father has a story book, which records some good allusions, including his own story, including when, when and how effective it is. In this way, he learned his common stories for a long time and knew which story was suitable for telling in any occasion.

Understand the audience

Before speaking, you need to know who your audience is, and then combine the knowledge prepared above to adjust the content for different audiences.

Speech script

Arrange the speech script through the four steps mentioned above.

Of course, the above is only after listening to Fan Deng's reading. You should read this book when you are free. There are some common sample scripts in the book. If we can get in touch well, I hope we can avoid the embarrassing scene when we speak next time.

There is still a long way to go, but talking goes on every day!

Open your mouth and get ready to perform!

Just like Zhou Xun, get up every morning and say to yourself: Action!