Yichun people come to help.

It has been a long-standing tradition that a man should show his wife money when he meets her for the first time. Now it is about 2K-1K. When the betrothal is called "stepping on the wedding hall" in the local dialect, the woman's parents will tell the matchmaker how much "gift money" the man should give (that is, the commonly said dowry). Now it should be 1,-2,. If the woman's parents opened it, they didn't talk about it (I never gave it).

You should not have the idea of "buying a wife", because the woman's parents will not spend the money you give. Generally, it will be spent on the wedding dress of your daughter (that is, your girlfriend). The more you give, the better. If they get anything-it is face!

So you don't have to worry about it. If you have money, give more. If you don't, be honest and say that you don't have money at hand now, and you'll honor your adult when you have it. This sounds comfortable, even if they insist on it, it only encourages you to work hard for another two years and save more money, so that your daughter will not suffer. That's what it means.