I am a slow-heating boy. I am introverted, and I don't take the initiative to talk when I am with my friends. I tend to be silent. I'm embarrassed. What should I do?

Personality is innate, and it is naturally related to its own growth environment. You need to change your personality slowly, don't worry. In your case, I think it comes down to your lack of self-confidence, and then your lack of friends skills. First, I must make sure that I can change. I was also a very introverted and self-abased girl in junior high school, but now I am crazy and cheerful. I suggest that you must be sure of yourself first, and don't be afraid of making mistakes and being hated. Suppose you have never been liked, hated, recognized or refuted in your life, so you haven't lived for many days, so what are you afraid of? Furthermore, if you are in college, I suggest you take courses in management communication and psychology, which will help you learn to put yourself in others' shoes. Then, in life, you can observe other people's reactions more, or talk to people you know well about your thoughts. You can learn a lot from the people around you. It's best to read more books and walk around other places. You've seen a lot, and you've enriched your knowledge, so naturally you have a topic to talk to others. Another suggestion is that I don't think it is necessary to be extroverted or anything. Take your time, and naturally you can form your own unique personality. In fact, most girls don't like boys who talk too much. On the contrary, most girls like boys who are really responsible and motivated. Finally, take your time, and you will get better and better.