My ex-husband got drunk and went to bed with me. Neighbors see jokes.

My ex-husband got drunk and went to bed with me. Neighbors see jokes.

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Li Muzi:

Four years ago, because my ex-husband was drunk, he frequently committed domestic violence against me. With the support of my in-laws and son, my ex-husband and I divorced by court, and the child was awarded to my ex-husband.

I have been in contact with my ex-husband because of my children, and because my ex-husband's parents and sisters are very kind to me, I don't want my children to live in divorced families. When my ex-husband asked for remarriage many times, I promised him that I would remarry as long as I could get rid of the bad habit of hitting people after drinking.

But in the past four years, my ex-husband has abused me after drinking for three times, and telephone harassment is a common occurrence. My ex-husband once threatened that the day I remarried would be my anniversary. Therefore, I refuse to face some men who are willing to marry me.

Last night, my ex-husband came to me after being drunk, kicked the door of the cabin I rented, tore my clothes and tried to rape me. Most of my neighbors were scared when they heard the news. Fortunately, a neighbor uncle helped me by calling 1 10, and I saved the day.

Now, I have no idea of remarriage, and I know that staying in the city where I live and work is a disaster. However, if I leave, it means that I will never see my children again in a year. It pains me to think about it.

In fact, as long as the ex-husband doesn't drink, he is still a reliable man. Only when he is drunk will he become worse than an animal.

My ex-husband's mother and sisters all want to sentence her ex-husband, but the thought that her son is still in junior high school is very tangled.

My parents have passed away. Under the present circumstances, I actually live in that city. What worries me most is my children.

When people reach middle age, two lines of tears can't help but flow down their cheeks at the thought of giving up their existing jobs and habits passively.

I know that even if I choose to escape, I still can't get in touch with my children. What should I do if my ex-husband comes after me again?

Faced with a hard life, I really want to die.

Reply to the blogger:

First, the police can't detain a bitch who has been drinking and making trouble for a long time. When your ex-husband is released, your days of fear will continue. So, don't hesitate. When he is detained, you should make plans to leave as soon as possible.

Second, the child is a piece of meat that fell from the mother. Once you leave from now on, there will definitely be too much disappointment, but saving your life is more important than staying with your children. This is a big deal. While you are working hard in a foreign land, you should scrimp and save more tickets for your son.

Third, children are now in junior high school. For some interests, your son will have the fairest judgment. I also believe that your decision to flee now will make your son understand you very much.

Fourth, it is best not to have too much contact with the ex-husband's mother and friends. You can let your son know your contact information, but don't talk to your son frequently, because the call list will eventually betray your whereabouts. At that time, what can you do if your ex-husband bothers you again?

5. Dogs really can't change eating shit. Over the years, you have supported your children and your own conscience. Even if you are tragic and far away from the city where you live and work now, at least your heart is open, because living alone these years has really wronged you a little.

No matter whether your future life is happy or hard, you should learn to be strong. What you are suffering at present is not your fault, but your bad attitude, because at the beginning of your marriage, you chose to associate with scum.