Do you know: truly powerful women have these three characteristics, have you found them?

Some people say that there are two really powerful women. One is that you can feel her energy and gas field at a glance, full of aggression and domineering; The other person looks gentle, calm and kind, but she feels comfortable with her and can do whatever she wants.

Many people say that the second type of women are really strong. This reminds me of the "knower" Ming Lan. That's what she is. She looks gentle and kind, but in fact she has a special power inside.

How is such a woman cultivated?

Understand the power of silence

Too many women don't know the saying "Silence is golden".

They always think that they can master their right to speak more, but they don't know that keeping silent in key occasions is the way to truly master their right to speak.

Whether at home or after marriage, Minglan is not very good at talking. On important occasions, she even answered in silence.

Some people think that silence is not a good policy, but in formal occasions, you can talk a lot and make you look weak and noble.

In the play, what impressed me most was that a politician from Beijing was invited to dinner at home to thank everyone for their support at Master Gu's funeral. The women sat down to eat together, and Princess Ning and Princess Grace talked about Ming Lan.

Yuhong went to Ming Lan and laughed at Ming Lan, indicating that Lan should withdraw the idea of marrying grandpa, instead of wishful thinking. Ming Lan didn't speak, also didn't distinguish himself, but eat, see purples didn't go, she also went away.

If it's Moran or Ju Ran, I'm afraid I have to defend myself.

But if the excuse really loses judgment, then let others see the joke.

A truly powerful woman knows the truth of silence. They seldom speak, but what they say at the critical moment cannot be refuted by others.

So, don't try to conquer others with words, learn to create your own aura with silence.

With the power field, you have the power to say anything.

17, don't lose your temper, but it doesn't mean you don't lose your temper.

Ming Lan seldom loses his temper, so in everyone's eyes, Ming Lan is a docile person.

But when it comes to her personal interests, she never wants to give up.

At the family dinner after marriage, Moran tearfully asked his father to enshrine his mother's memorial tablet in the temple. Ming Lan was so anxious that his chopsticks fell to the ground that he told him all about Lin Xiaoniang.

Even to Liang, she threatened.

Shi Sheng wanted to beat Ming Lan, so Ming Lan looked at him mercilessly.

Shi Sheng didn't expect Ming Lan, who is usually so docile, to do such a thing, but he also knew where Ming Lan's bottom line was and never mentioned Lin Xiaonan.

Compared with Ms. Wang, she is grumpy and arrogant at home every day, as if she had never threatened Shen.

People who often lose their temper will be immune to you, and even people who lose their temper repeatedly will be looked down upon by you.

Think about it, in our life, are people who are often angry quite disdainful?

But if you know how to control your emotions at ordinary times and lose your temper at critical moments, you can achieve the desired results.

If you want to be a real strong woman, don't lose your temper casually, but you can't lose your temper. Every time you lose your temper, there must be a reason; Every time you lose your temper, you should be decent and daunting.

In this way, you can achieve the desired effect.

6. Don't say hard words or do soft things.

Ming Lan seldom says harsh words, but she never does anything gentle.

In the play, Ming Lan never said cruel words to Wang Niangzi, Gong Sheng and Lin Xiaoniang, her mother's enemies.

Even if Lin Xiaoniang was sent to Zhuangzi, she just sat down briefly and gave her the photo without saying anything bad.

In the face of Moran, she didn't answer blows with blows and hurt people.

But not saying mean things doesn't mean she won't do mean things.

Aunt Kang poisoned Mrs Sheng. She didn't give up and tried her best to encourage Shen to let go. Besides, she asked Uncle Kang to send Aunt Kang to prison.

Many women like to say harsh words, but they can't do it if they say harsh words. Don't let people look down on themselves.

But Ming Lan never said cruel words, but in this case, it didn't make people take a step. Instead, it won everyone's respect and achieved the expected results.

A strong woman speaks malicious words on the surface, but hides her sadness and helplessness in secret, while a smart woman is gentle and harmonious on the surface, but rational and simple in secret. Thunder and thunder, thousands of miles back. Yohji yamamoto said: You can't see this thing. If you hit something, bounce back, and you will know yourself.

Really powerful women, they all know how to express their views, deal with things first, and then deal with emotions. They are usually gentle and kind, but they are determined.

It is comfortable to be with such a woman, but you can feel her strength from her indifferent appearance, which makes you appreciate her from the heart.

I hope you can be the second kind of woman.