Baby-faced troubles

There are many people with baby faces. First of all, we should be calm.

I think the best way is to put yourself in the other's shoes.

I used to have similar troubles as you. When I was a child, I accidentally thought the side face was ugly, and then it became a shadow. When people talk to me and look at me, I feel insecure and care about other people's opinions. In fact, this kind of psychology can be alleviated as long as two kinds of thinking are done well.

1. Observing others, not all people are surrounded by white bags. Most people always have all kinds of flaws, but there are many confident people among them. They may not have successful careers, outstanding IQ and amazing backgrounds. Like them, why must we be afraid of other people's eyes?

2. Look at people sincerely. When I feel inferior, I will think about my mentality when I look at some ordinary or special or almost ugly people. In fact, I just looked at them normally and didn't think too much. Really looking at people's looks won't produce too many thoughts, so you will be worse in the eyes of others. In fact, people will be more harsh when they look at themselves. The problem you think may not exist in the eyes of others. As for what you said about people laughing at you, it's a psychological effect. Imagine if you see a stranger and you smile, is it a mockery of the other person? If so, why laugh at others because they have baby faces? I can say for sure that others don't smile as much as you think.

I hope you are more confident. Although I am not a professional, I speak according to my real situation and experience. Hope to adopt!