How do men and women chat when they add WeChat prologue for the first time?

1, start with a pet, for example, send a photo of a pet sleeping first, and then add: I suddenly envy my lotus seeds and sleep like a pig. Tired and hungry after ironing, I am so angry. No matter how the girl replies to you, you can continue to say: By the way, have you eaten? Like this normal communication, girls will not be disgusted, even if they are not very humorous, but when they see this information, they will have a sense of comfort and a desire to reply to you. Many brothers chat with their friends very well, and they will be scrapped as soon as they get a girl they like. In fact, the problem of chatting is very easy to solve. The point is that many people don't upgrade their relationships. Many times, our relationship with girls is tepid. In addition to not being good at chatting and not showing your personal charm correctly, let girls label you as low-value, so no matter how long you try, if you really want to chat with the girl you like now and want to warm up your relationship quickly, but you can't find a way, you can come to Xiao Jiu and Xiao Jiu to help you master humorous and sensational chatting skills and share your charm secrets. 2, first praise the other girl who just added is unfamiliar, and I don't know what to talk about is normal, but really don't stop talking or forcibly chat. Before chatting, you can observe the girl's circle of friends, or the avatar, signature, etc. And talk according to the information she revealed. For example, she took a selfie today. You can praise her. For example, you can say that her eyes are bright and watery. Or you can say that her lip gloss is beautiful. In short, praise must be specific, so that girls feel that you are not flattering. Everyone likes nice words. If you boast too much, the topic will naturally come. 3, find the right mood * * * Opening remarks Really don't say "hello little sister", just give me a slightly missing love word, which will cause her to sing, for example: this dish has the taste of mother. Throw a picture directly and say: I haven't eaten my mother's cooking for a long time, so I miss it. Girls are very filial. When talking about hometown, relatives and other topics, you can't hide your desire to chat, which is also a good way to generate emotions. As long as she replies to you, you can boldly start a topic. Believe me, it's not a problem to talk until dawn. How do men and women chat when they add WeChat prologue for the first time? 2 How to chat with the girl you just met? 1: 1. The opening must be short to play the role of opening chat, so it must not be too lengthy, and the number of words generally does not exceed 20 words. If you talk too much, it will bring great pressure to girls visually, and you will be tired of this man's verbosity. 2. In order to arouse girls' interest, new girls can send fun expression packs directly to make each other happy and interact easily, which is relatively simple and effective. But don't send too much, otherwise it will easily lead to fights and will not have good results. Some boys are too eager for a result, afraid that their enthusiasm will not be responded, and they are very concerned about girls' every move. In fact, if the other party doesn't reply immediately, it may be busy with other things. Don't keep asking, you'll get bored. I used to have a low eq and couldn't speak. I always thought that I could catch up with a girl by being nice to her, and I always thought that I could win a good impression by being a serious man. I also tried to pester girls every day, often chatting with them, and what to do in the morning ... I often praised girls' circle of friends, but the other side ignored it, and finally got nothing, wasting a lot of energy. 3. Observe my sister's circle of friends and see if there are any topics to talk about, such as seeing many food photos. Wow, I found that I have the same hobby as you, that is, we all eat food and like to find food! If she often shares some chicken soup, you can say, "I just went to your circle of friends and drank several bowls of chicken soup, which almost made my nose bleed." This kind of active and humorous dialogue, combined with the high emotional intelligence of picking up girls, usually makes girls happy to reply. 4. Girls are generally not resistant to compliments. But remember to praise something. For example, some girls have some kittens and puppies in their pictures. You can say, your puppy is so cute. How old is it? Or when you see children in MengMeng, you can flatter them. You should like children very much. After praising, ask each other's views and opinions and interact. How to chat with girls you just met 2: 1, guide them to talk to you, and restrain their desire to talk. Let the other person talk more and talk less about her own affairs, and stimulate her desire to talk to you. Say a little more: Really? Is it? What happened? Something like that. The more girls talk, the more you know, and you have a chance of winning. When she said it, you added a similar sentence: Me too. I think we are very similar, in that case. Fill him with fantasies. 2, release your chat emotions correctly. All boring chats lack something called emotion. Such people are often men who lack passion and tension. (Chat routine skills) 3. Create curiosity. You look like a child I knew when I was a child. It's very sweet of you to fight with me at that time. 4, push and pull I have a lot to say to you, always in my heart. I don't think this skirt looks good on you. Using these two skills skillfully in (tweet) chat will make your chat with your sister more interesting and interesting. How to chat with girls you just met 3: Talking about topics and chatting with girls, of course, it is more interesting to choose girls. Don't let a chat turn into a person talking. We can choose topics according to each other's circle of friends. For example, if a girl keeps a pet, you can talk about how embarrassed your pet is. Girls usually talk about their pets. * * * Friends with you, places you have been, etc. , can be used as a choice to chat with girls. What's wrong with chatting with a girl you just met? 1, Feelings When chatting with girls you just met, you should be careful not to talk about emotional things, such as the emotional history of your predecessor or the other party, which will make girls have a bad impression on you. (Chat routine skills) 2. Too specific issues, such as girls' work, salary and family problems, can be discussed but not too deep. After all, you just met, and you're not her boyfriend. 3. Topics full of negative energy If you always complain about the negative energy of work and life when chatting with a girl you have just known for a long time, it will make girls think that you are a person who only knows complaints and has no initiative. How do men and women talk about the opening remarks of the first WeChat? How to enhance feelings and express love during love? We should always express our love to our lovers. A simple "I like you" or "You are my world" makes the other person feel very sweet, which can make the other person feel your heart, taste the taste of love and feel more secure. Appreciate each other's advantages. We should always tell each other what we like about her, what we love about her, what highlights in each other make you proud and what advantages they have in your eyes. Let the other person know that you appreciate her not only when you first started dating, but your life. At the same time, we should encourage and support each other. Only in this way can the other side play its potential. Share your feelings with each other more. Don't lock yourself up and cover up your good and bad, ambitions, fears, achievements, mistakes and so on. We can share these important things with each other. Also, lovers should be the people you share the most secrets with, not others. Although even the closest people should have their own privacy, don't forget to set aside time to chat with your lover. When the other person encounters difficulties and stands behind him (her), when the lover encounters setbacks in life, we should all comfort each other and make him (her) better. Similarly, when lovers and friends quarrel and have troubles at work, they should know how to comfort each other. Small surprise A meaningful dessert can also be a pair of earrings and a beautiful skirt-no matter how much, just let the other person know that you have her in your heart. We can also write a loving post-it note and send a "I love you" WeChat at work. These can let the other party know that you have her in your heart, and the other party will have more confidence in themselves and increase their sense of security. Understanding and tolerating each other's shortcomings, our high expectations of each other are probably the root cause of love failure. Unless you marry a robot, we can't expect each other to have no shortcomings. No one is perfect. This is all a person's character and personality, not a shortcoming. We should learn to explore and accept something special about each other. A normal person will have his own hobbies more or less. Those own weaknesses often make us feel uneasy, so don't blame others' weaknesses, and don't deliberately expose the shortcomings of the other half. Set aside time to be with each other. No matter how busy you are at work, make sure you have a night alone for a week or two. It is at this time that new memories are created and you can share your stories with each other. Maybe you just stay together and feel warm because of each other's company. Don't take it for granted We should always be grateful for the kindness and happiness of the other half. We should remember that the happiness in love comes from the trivial things that the other half does for us, and we should repay them. Never take for granted what others do to you. Love is a process of accumulation bit by bit. We should cultivate it carefully. Once we slack off on love, love will slowly leave you. In the pursuit of equality, we must not forget the most important rule in love: don't impose what we don't want on others. You should allocate housework and other things reasonably. Don't expect or ask your partner to take extra care of yourself when you don't take extra care of others.