The relationship between people and money

Money is like shit. If you have money, put it aside first The key is whether you dare to spend it. Spin a thousand silver coins and come back! Spending money like water shows that this person has seen through money. Rich people dare to spend money, which is not called skill. The less money they have, the more they dare to spend. It can be seen that he is numb to money and regards money as smelly shit. Don't be fooled by money, you can put it down. Only in this way can you be either rich or expensive. People who think too much about money often have less money. The more they are dominated by money, the more they can't control it. People don't come into this world for money, and people don't live for money. People who live for money will die for it one day. 100 can boil a pot of water? What is money if you can't burn a pot of water? Let money be a tool for people, and don't let people be slaves of money. Since ancient times, people in China like to earn money, and they regard money as their life. But they dare not spend money, so they all become misers. I don't think a person should burn Mingbi after death, but RMB. Don't leave money to children, don't donate it to others, and burn your own money to yourself. Spend the money you earned. If you spend other people's money, you are hurting him. If you let others spend your money, you are also hurting others. Remember that money is bullshit, money is a tool, money is not God, and money is not an end. People want to earn a lot of money to prove your ability and value, and people want to spend a little money to prove your realm and accomplishment. The rest of the money is useless. Burn it all.

Don't regard money as the only thing, don't be afraid that money will be regarded as a god, and don't regard money as more important than life. You should treat money like shit. If you don't see through money, you can't be a rich man at all. If you are always led by money, you will never be able to control it. You should always remember that money is earned by people, and it is people who decide it. What determines money is your ability and your energy, which means how much money you can have in your life. We should not be bound by money, nor should we be confused by it. The more you want money, the more money ignores you. When did you look down on money? Seeing through the money, he will come to you on his own initiative.

We should establish a view of money, that is, how to treat money. What exactly is money? What role does money play in our life? What is our relationship with money? If you don't have a correct view of money, then you will be disturbed by money, and you will blindly pursue money and worship it. People don't live for money, money must live for people. Money exists for people, and money is valuable. If people exist for money, then you are a worthless person. Is money important? Or is life important? Is life important or money important? We always think that money is more important than anything else, and life is not as important as money. Therefore, you regard your lover's love as worthless. You shouldn't talk about feelings with money. Money is a piece of paper. He is an object, and he has no feelings. Don't hurt feelings and relationships for money. Therefore, only by establishing a correct view of money can we live happily. The distorted view of money will make us live a very painful and sad life.

Second, the concept of money.

What is the correct view of money? You have to figure out a question: how did the money come from? Money is the result of our efforts and efforts. So your ability and strength are equal to money. You decide the money, and so do you. In other words, money comes from my value, and as much as my value is, so is my wealth. Then you know that money serves people, and people can't serve money. In other words, when you make money, you can't be a miser. You should enjoy money and spend money. But this kind of enjoyment and consumption must be reasonable. You can't take money to indulge your desires, to degenerate your soul, and to show off your wealth everywhere. That's not right either. At the same time, we need to understand a problem. You shouldn't leave your money to your children. If you leave money to your child, it is equivalent to harming the child and raising the child with money. This has caused your children to be black sheep, and children who grow up on money are basically useless. Only children who grow up from poverty can dominate their own lives. So don't take money to raise children, and don't take money to honor your parents. In China's past family ethics, we are reluctant to spend money and leave it to our children and grandchildren. Filial piety with your own money, on the surface, this is the so-called love for children and filial piety for parents. But in essence, you are harming your children, and you are harming your parents. A generation spends a generation's money, and a generation earns a generation's money. Only in this way can we form a correct modern family ethics, so you can't establish a modern family ethics without a correct view of money.

Now our real society, to put it bluntly, the gold standard is money-only theory, that is, we put money at the center and put it in the most important position. And we don't put people in the middle. In fact, people-oriented is correct and sentimentalism is correct. However, due to the incorrect concept of money formed by this society, our values have been distorted. In other words, money distorts human nature in people's hearts. It is precisely because of money that people are not good, so people are evil. Humanity is no longer me for everyone and everyone for me. What becomes selfish is that everyone must do it for me, and I don't have to do it for everyone, which becomes selfish. It is not entirely correct to have enough food and clothing to know shame. Sometimes having plenty of food and clothing often makes people even less ashamed. Because people's desires have no bottom line, eating steamed bread today is like eating steamed buns tomorrow, and the day after tomorrow he wants to eat beef and delicacies. Therefore, adequate food and clothing often make people lose their sense of politeness and shame, make people's hearts deteriorate, make people's hearts deteriorate, and make people become indifferent. Therefore, only by establishing a set of correct values can we resist the infringement from material money. It is precisely because we have not established any spiritual home, soul destination and moral values that we will be quickly swallowed up by money. Because we are not vaccinated, we have no resistance. When money strikes, we will all be hurt by it. So we all have a virus called money virus. Only the spirit can restrain the material, and only the cultural values and the love of lovers can overcome the money virus.