The child failed Tsinghua's joke.

Is the child's stupidity born? Silly children have no future? Really not necessarily:

A mother sent a stupid child to Tsinghua.

At the first parent-teacher meeting in kindergarten, the teacher said that the child was hyperactive and couldn't sit still for three minutes. On the way home, the son asked, What did the teacher say? The mother endured disappointment and comforted the child: the teacher said that you have made progress. I used to sit for one minute, but now I can sit for three minutes.

The child was happy to go home and ate an extra bowl of rice.

When my child went to a parent-teacher conference in elementary school, the teacher said: Your child may have some mental retardation and got 40 in math. Parents are advised to take their children to the hospital.

On the way home, the mother said to the lost child: The teacher said that you are not a stupid child. If you work hard, you may surpass your deskmate (deskmate 28). The mother's words filled the child with electricity, and the dim eyes were filled with light at once.

Until the child went to junior high school, the teacher said at the parent-teacher meeting that it was a bit dangerous for the child to go to a key high school, but the mother told the child: The teacher said that as long as you work hard, you will be admitted to a key high school!

Moreover, the child was really admitted to a key high school. After graduating from high school, the school personally called his son to go to school to get the notice, and his son gave his mother an admission notice from Tsinghua University!

Children may be born a little stupid, but as long as parents always take their children seriously and encourage them, your children will definitely fly first.

Jing's mother read a book yesterday, written by Sunshine's sister, which tells the story of a stupid child who stood up with the encouragement of his teachers and classmates.

Jin Xin, a silly boy, found that all the students around him were smart when he transferred to another school, but he was stupid compared with his classmates and felt inferior from the heart. Fortunately, the teacher took care of him and his classmates were friendly. Make him feel that the school is warm.

Another weekend, my father took Jin Xin to New Oriental Yu to attend a lecture. Yu said that he was a silly child since he was a child. Stupid children are as good as stupid children. Those clever children may remember quickly when they recite, and the speed of remembering is directly proportional to the speed of forgetting. Because stupid children know that they are stupid, they will study repeatedly and remember carefully, but they will remember it firmly. When they wait for the exam, they will do better and realize that they are stupid. This is the beginning of success.

After listening to the lecture, Jin Xin also wrote a weekly diary, which was praised by the teacher as good, and then it got out of hand.

In addition, I made a survey with my classmates about their snacks, which was successfully completed with the help of my classmates.

Later, I mistakenly participated in the debate competition, from a timid and inferior child to the best debater, helping the school win the first debate competition.

Every child has his own characteristics. Parents should give more encouragement to their children in the process of raising them, and you will find that even stupid children have spring.

Children need encouragement just as plants need water. Without encouragement, they can't survive.

For some children who are often criticized or negatively evaluated by the outside world, they need to be encouraged. For example, stupid children may be more vulnerable to criticism or rejection from the outside world. Parents and teachers, as important guides for children's growth, should give them more encouragement. How can we encourage them?

1, choose the right time to encourage children.

Encouraging children is not flattery.

For example, if you send a stupid child to Tsinghua's mother, instead of encouraging the child every day, tell the child that you are great. Instead, she chose to attend the parent-teacher conference and tell them encouraging words when they came back.

For example, it's no use encouraging a child to cry because he can't do his homework. What we need to do at this time is to understand the children and guide them how to do their homework.

Parents should not expect encouragement to make their children get better immediately.

Some things children are not very good at by nature, for example, children get 50 points in math test, and after encouragement, you get 58 points, which is actually worthy of praise and encouragement. Because the child has improved.

If your child is only capable of 50 points, but you hope to get 80 points by encouraging him, then your goal is too high. The purpose of our encouragement is to make children progress, not to let them achieve your perfect goal.

3. Find more advantages of children and less disadvantages of children.

A mother took her child to a counselor: talk back when she says the child can't do anything. I would say that she is in the top three and her academic performance is not good. The teacher often criticizes him for not finishing his homework well. The teacher said that we should take our children to psychological counseling! How can this child be so stupid!

The counselor told his mother: Your child can talk back, which shows that her reaction ability is quick and smart!

Many parents will stare at their children's shortcomings: they will always say that children can't do this, that's bad, that's bad, and more than 85% of their energy is concerned about their children's shortcomings every day.

In fact, the advantages of children definitely outweigh the disadvantages. If we pay more attention to the advantages of children, you will find that your children are also excellent.

Besides encouraging our children, we should also give them a special time every day or week.

Don't ignore children because they are busy. Our busy work is for children to have a better life in the future, but if we don't pay attention to children's mental health and can't make children grow up happier, our work will actually lose its ultimate meaning.

Therefore, it is suggested that parents can arrange a special time for their children. At this time, they only belong to children. Parents don't look at their mobile phones or do anything else, but concentrate on accompanying their children, making them feel that they are unique and deeply loved by their parents.