On the wedding day, she said, "I wish I could look back and grow old with affection."

Last month was 17, and the lunar calendar was 10, which was an auspicious day. Good friend Xiao Cong ended his trip alone and went to the marriage hall with his boyfriend.

On that day, I was the maid of honor, accompanying my good friend of 7 years through this important moment of life. The groom walked slowly across the red carpet to her and looked at her affectionately all the way. Standing beside me, I felt her tension and excitement. I think her heart must be pounding at this important moment.

The host asked, "Xiao Cong, do you have anything to say to the groom?" She glanced at him, who only had room for her in her eyes, and replied shallowly, "I wish I could look back and grow old with affection."

I stood under the stage, listening to this poem. I smiled and felt that this sentence did not belong to 2 1 century at all. Then I want to cry again: "beautiful girl, you have always liked all kinds of beautiful love poems, and even took a small notebook to write it down." Perhaps, waiting for this moment "

Xiao Cong is my college classmate. She is not a standard beauty, but she is very handsome.

She has a good personality and always takes care of others like a sister. Even if others are ungrateful, she never cares.

She remembers all her friends' birthdays, and at 0 o'clock on the birthday, she will definitely send a text message and call to wish them well.

She is stupid, too. I still remember that when writing a paper, she failed many times, so I had to go into battle as a good friend and modify the format and content. Finally, it's done.

We are a teachers' college, with three-quarters of girls, and the rest of the boys are not very good. So there was a serious watershed: tall and handsome boys changed girlfriends every year, while short and fat boys spent four years alone in college and played games in the dormitory every day.

Xiao Cong is very common among many girls. She hasn't been strongly pursued by a boy for four years in college. She spent four years in college with me alone.

After graduation, Xiao Cong went to Wuxi. From the beginning, she had many good friends. She has become much more cheerful than before, but she is still alone except her friends.

When I came home during the Spring Festival, my relatives introduced a boy. Boys are good-natured when they work as clerks in the army. It's just that the troops are in Hainan, and the management of the troops is strict. It's harder to meet them than to ascend to heaven.

If they talk, it means that Xiao Cong has to adapt to long-distance love, be prepared not to see her boyfriend for months or even a year or two, and leave Wuxi for Hainan, which is more than 2,000 kilometers away from home at the right time.

People in their twenties long for love. Xiao Cong accepted this hard-won feeling without hesitation.

The army is very strict about the time when using mobile phones. In order to hear her boyfriend's voice every day, Xiao Cong has to wait until 10 every day to wait for her boyfriend's phone call.

At first, he was very good. Even if he was busy and tired, he insisted on calling and chatting with Xiao Cong. After a few months, he became very busy, and sometimes he often forgot to answer Xiao Cong's text messages and phone calls. But when he apologized to Xiaocong in a tired tone, Xiaocong felt that his request was too unreasonable. How can he bear to make him more tired because of himself?

Time flies. In addition to meeting during the Spring Festival, Xiao Cong felt her boyfriend's love in a long phone call for a year.

My boyfriend hasn't contacted for a week, and she repeatedly comforted herself: "He is too busy, I have to learn to understand him"! But in the end, she didn't hold back. She called her boyfriend at 9 pm. Xiao Cong excitedly described what happened around her recently and what she thought of him. There was a silence on the other end of the phone. After a while,

He said, let's break up! Xiao Cong is puzzled. "why"?

I don't want to keep you. My own career has not improved. I have no money, no house and no car. I don't know when to get married. I don't want you to suffer with me!

Xiaocong is unwilling to give up this relationship, and her efforts to save it are of no help. Later, she gradually accepted this fact.

Sad Xiao Cong called me: "He is a self-motivated and responsible person, and he had to break up with me for my future." I said, "Do you believe all these men? You are so stupid! Xiao Cong doesn't want me to speak ill of him even if we break up.

After a while, Xiao Cong learned a news that shocked her immensely: "He got married and found a girl from Hainan to marry." The so-called not wanting to get married for the sake of career has become a joke.

Xiao Cong has been sad for a long time, and this long-distance relationship has brought her too much harm. She left Wuxi and went home with heavy luggage.

After the introduction of colleagues, she met her current husband-a tall, handsome and gentle man.

He likes to give her casual romance, including a bunch of flowers, a box of chocolates, a big box of snacks and holiday red envelopes.

When quarreling, he is always the one who apologizes and compromises and tolerates her small temper. In his eyes, Xiao Cong's angry expression is very cute.

He took Xiao Cong's hand through the beautiful scenery and took beautiful photos for Xiao Cong.

Every weekend, he has to drive for more than an hour to Xiao Cong's work unit, just to send Xiao Cong home safely.

Xiao Cong has also changed, and likes to show love in QQ space. "20 16, July 9 in the solar calendar, the happiest day" and "just right!" "How can I be so cute? How can I not love you! " ……

Such a sweet couple makes us envy and hate everything we see.

After a long-distance relationship, Xiao Cong finally welcomed the person who was willing to stay with her all the time.

Maybe all this is arranged by God. In the process of being hurt again and again, I slowly learned how to love. Love is neither blindly given nor blindly taken. what is love ? Give a definition to love!