A man's mouth is a deceptive ghost! Why do they always lie when they are in love?

Lies are a double-edged sword in love. Sometimes everyone is happy, and sometimes both of them are hurt. Not all lies are malicious, but most lies in love have lost their true feelings.

There is a popular saying on the Internet that "a man's mouth is a deceptive ghost". In love, men can reverse the facts. Kan Kan talked about it. A few words of insincere comfort play a woman in the palm of your hand. It is said that women in love are blind. In the face of lies and sweet words, she always gives up her principles and chooses to forgive.

In the intimate relationship between two people, commitment is the catalyst. In the face of men's sweet words, women always indulge in them, but often ignore the time difference between commitment and fulfillment, as well as the uncertainties and uncontrollable factors that promises without external constraints will face.

Lies are the catalyst and consumption of love.

Lies actually have branches. Not all lies are just for cheating. White lies in feelings are a kind of emotional intelligence.

However, this kind of deception is not selective and always stays within the controllable range. The purpose of white lies is to love each other better.

For example, there is a debate in The Story of Chipa entitled "Should white lies be told?".

Luo Zhenyu said, "My wife once asked me if it was my first love, and I said yes. My wife casually said that she didn't believe it, but she was actually very happy. "

In love or marriage, this kind of white lie can actually solve many upcoming contradictions, which is the catalyst of love.

However, malicious lies are actually the cancer of love, which will only consume the trust value excessively over time, and finally make a calm and beautiful relationship smoky.

In fact, the biggest difference between kindness and malice of lies in love lies in two points: selectivity and starting point. Does this lie touch the bottom line and choice of love? Is the self-starting point of the lie to cover up or to be happy?

There is no room for a grain of sand in a lover's eyes. Sometimes a man's "malicious" lies are actually a fatal blow to love.

Count the lies in those men's feelings.

First, "I will support you in the future."

Many people remember the phrase "I will support you in the future" in Stephen Chow's king of comedy. Many people are moved by their regret for their lover and reality.

But movies are always movies. When this sentence is put into real life, it becomes a man's favorite lie, and in many emotional practical problems, the man's saying "I will support you in the future" is a fatal blow to a woman's life.

In the TV series My First Half Life, Luo Zijun graduated from a famous university and successfully entered a foreign company after graduation. She is good enough to give up her career because of love, because her husband Chen said, "I will support you all my life and make you the happiest woman."

However, Chen chose to cheat in Luo Zijun's middle age, made a new love and abandoned Luo Zijun. Luo Zijun, who was divorced from society, finally learned to be self-reliant.

Women's independence has always been a commonplace topic, but they often give up themselves for love because of a man's words. In the end, they lost their love and the right to choose their life.

2. "I will definitely change it next time."

People who like to say next time often have countless next times.

In love, a man's promise is easy enough, but few people really put it into action. In the movie Forgive Him 77 Times, Zhang Zhisi's mistakes in love became the norm, and Lv Huixin's forgiveness seemed to become a habit. Every time he made a mistake, he always said "it won't happen next time", but it didn't take long for him to make a mistake without any real reform.

As the classic line in the play says, "You will forgive him, but you will never forget the reason for every heartbreak. Lv Hui said to himself, "I don't want to find a boyfriend who won't continue this time. "

Finally, the promise turned into a joke, and the lie turned into a heartbreak. Lv Huixin left a heartbreaking diary and chose to leave.

I don't mind your past.

Zhang Ailing said that a man has two roses in his life, a red rose and a white rose. Whoever he gets, the other one is Zhu Shazhi or Bai Yueguang.

All men say before they really get a woman is sweet words and sugar-coated shells. When they really get a woman, it is mostly disgust and lies.

What you can't get is always in turmoil, and what you are optimistic about is fearless. When men are chasing women, they always say "I don't mind your past", and when they really satisfy themselves, they will find fault and slander constantly.

Men love to "change their faces" in their feelings, but they always judge women but often can't see themselves clearly. Many women feel inferior because of a man's words, because love is black and blue.

In fact, people who really love you are willing to love anything. Only those men who are insincere will have a cliff-like change in their feelings and regard women as the object of playing.

Don't trust men easily. Women must keep a clear head in their feelings, know how to weigh the pros and cons, and choose the person who really suits them.

In the face of false lies in love, we can't deceive ourselves for the sake of perfection, we can't forgive again and again because of our soft-hearted and nostalgic choices, but we don't have to lower our expectations of love and recognition of others because of lies.