At the dinner party, what "moves" are there, in fact, his character is not good?

Wine has a history of thousands of years in China, so it has a long wine culture. The so-called no wine, no table, from ancient times to the present, whether it is a large banquet or a gathering of friends, using wine to entertain seems to have become a routine.

However, the so-called people have character and wine has wine. Many times, a person's wine on the wine table actually reveals his character.

So, at the dinner party, there were these? Moving? Most people have bad personalities, so there is no need to be intimate.

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A person who forcibly persuades alcohol.

As the saying goes, a little drink is good for your feelings, but a big drink is harmful. Everyone has different physical conditions, some people can drink, and some people don't even touch alcohol. Wine was originally used for entertainment. Drink more if you can or like, and drink less or even not if you can't.

Don't be rude on the wine table, but also know how to respect people. This is also the rule on the wine table. But there is such a kind of person, because he can drink and loves to drink, so he forces others to drink regardless of their alcohol consumption.

If others don't drink, they say they have no face, or look down on him, and force others to drink with human feelings or power. He won't be happy unless others drink it. Even if he doesn't eat food, he will be satisfied only by watching others drink.

Such people are not so much drinking and entertaining as playing tricks on others, deliberately embarrassing others, and building their happiness on the suffering of others, let alone respecting them. He is happy to watch others drink, and even happier to watch others drink.

Regardless of other people's self-esteem and physical health, only his own face and his happiness are in his heart. Such people have no other people in their hearts, don't know how to care about others, are extremely selfish, and have a very bad personality.

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People who don't drink themselves and persuade others to drink.

This kind of person is more hateful. He can't drink or doesn't want to drink. But his mouth is not idle, and he keeps urging others to drink more, either to please the main characters on the wine table or to make people look stupid and embarrassed.

So-called? Don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you? Don't say anything if you don't drink it yourself, just eat your own. But it's not the personality that stares at others to persuade them to drink. What's the problem?

Knowing that others are in poor health or can't drink, it is insidious to endlessly encourage others to drink and provoke the relationship between the parties and others by borrowing wine on the wine table. Such people, without kindness, use others as tools to achieve their desired goals, full of villains' practices.

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Someone who advises women to drink.

When there are women on the wine table, the general practice will make women choose whether to drink or not, which is a man's concern and respect for women. But there is such a person, as long as there are women on the wine table, especially young girls, who have to be drunk.

Under the banner of cultivating people's social skills, work needs exercise and so on. It is difficult to persuade people to drink. They will be unhappy if they don't drink it, and they will make people drink it again and again. Let's just say that their character is really bad. Tu Lei, an emotional master, once said a word, which is also advice to female friends. There are no good men on the wine table who advise women to drink.

Personally, Tu Lei's words are not excessive. Unless people are willing to drink and want to drink, that is their right. Otherwise, you know she can't drink or doesn't want to drink. Why talk to her? To put it mildly, your emotional intelligence is low and you don't know compassion. Seriously, no one can know if you have dark thoughts in your heart.

In fact, on the wine table, men pretend to be crazy by drinking, and frivolous things about women's words or actions are endless. Therefore, if a female friend meets someone who has to persuade you to drink at the wine table, she should still refuse skillfully. If they can't refuse again and again, they should try to protect themselves and don't let some men with ulterior motives succeed.

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Finally, I also want to advise those who love to persuade others to drink, knowing that others can't or don't want to drink. Everyone at the wine table should bear the corresponding responsibilities if the person involved is injured or has an accident due to drunkenness.

At the same time, people who like to pretend to be crazy by drinking should also pay attention. Don't think that if you drink too much, you won't be responsible for your actions.

So, if you meet such a person on the wine table, you'd better stay away. Your character is really bad.

Anyway, drinking is for everyone's happiness and fun. Don't go against the original intention of drinking on the wine table. On the wine table, you should also be a civilized, educated and understanding person. Don't be that suspicious person, it will only lose all the popularity.