How do children's precocious puberty lead to five factors that lead to children's precocious puberty?

precocious child is every mother's heart disease! Why is mine so precocious? No matter what the problem is, we must find its root! Today, experts will take a look at several inducing factors that will lead to precocity during the child's growth!

1. Let children learn "dirty jokes" from adults.

Many parents have the experience of taking their children to work, and many people have this experience: some colleagues treat their children as "fun" and have fun with them, which is not good for them. A parent said that after she took her 4-year-old child to work, they learned a lot of "adult talk", such as "fooling around", "keeping a mistress", "hugging thick legs" and so on, and even learned some "dirty words" and "dirty jokes", which made parents very worried.

2. Put on sunglasses for the boy and put on a cool suit.

Curl your daughter's hair and put on a long adult dress; Some parents like to wear sunglasses and cool suits for their sons. As long as the advertisement says that any health care products are good, parents will buy them for their children to try. Children's nutrition experts believe that children's blind tonic and indiscriminate use of health care products will lead to an increase in hormone levels in children's blood, and will also cause obesity in children, leading to precocious puberty.

3. Kindergarten teachers are quick to match "small partners".

"Mom, you have to buy a new pair of shoes for my daughter-in-law today." A 3-year-old boy made this request to his mother. After investigation, the mother learned that the teacher in her kindergarten "speed-matched" several pairs of "little couples" in the class, and usually joked about "little couples".

In the opinion of some kindergarten teachers, it is nothing to make fun of the children in their class, but most parents think it is inappropriate, because children now know a lot of things, so they should be allowed to establish a correct friendship relationship from an early age.

4. Children aged three or four learn to sing love songs.

I don't know when the content of "children as guests" was added in the form of TV variety shows. The host teased the children with some strange questions and performances. It is said that children should show their talents. In fact, the more children can make a fool of themselves, the better.

In some programs, children dress up as adults, and children aged three or four imitate rock stars or sing love songs. Moreover, the host will deliberately let the children do some winking and posturing actions. The language and behavior in these entertainment programs will be imitated by young children. Guo Jianguo, a preschool educator, believes that children's "precocity" in language and behavior should not be underestimated. Children are a mirror of adults and society. Don't let the mirror of children reflect our uncivilized and unhealthy adults.

5. Children and adults watch adult TV together.

A 5-year-old boy has grown a beard, while a 6-year-old girl's nipples have become bigger. The specialty of precocious puberty in traditional Chinese medicine accepted two rare "adults", and the conclusion of clinical diagnosis surprised two parents even more: 3354-the disaster caused by adult TV. It turns out that both children are TV fans and often watch adult TV dramas with their parents. A statistical data also confirms that children's precocious puberty is increasing at a rate of 3% every year, and about 3% of the nearly 1 precocious puberty children treated in our college every day are caused by watching adult TV.

With the development and opening up of society, more and more parents begin to pay attention to their children's sex education, but many parents are ashamed to say it and don't know where to start. It is best to start at what stage of the child. So let's take a look at it now, so that children can have a healthy understanding of their sexual life in the future.

From the development stage of sexual psychology, children aged 3-5 have already determined their own gender in the communication with the opposite sex. 6 to 12 years old is a "sexual incubation period", and the first half of this period shows that it likes to associate and contact with the opposite sex; The second half is characterized by rejecting the opposite sex and only playing the same sex. There is no adult sexual consciousness and desire at this stage. Adolescence after the age of 13 is the embryonic stage of sexual attraction. My daughter is in the stage of liking to associate with the opposite sex. At this stage, she has no sexual consciousness. Playing with boys, or hugging male teachers, all show her lively and enthusiastic personality, which is different from the intimacy with sexual consciousness in the eyes of adults.

Before the child is 3 years old, the mother's care is the most important thing, while the father does not play his role until after the age of 3. The father is the template for establishing the code of conduct. 3~5 years old is also the growth stage of Oedipus Complex and Oedipus Complex. Mother-child relationship is generally closer than father-son relationship, and father-daughter relationship is closer than mother-daughter relationship. At this stage, parents of the opposite sex need to have more hearts. For example, the father gives his daughter enough intimacy to meet the spiritual needs of "sexual attachment", let her know that mom and dad love each other, and both sides love the baby equally, encourage her to get along with her parents, and create a balanced family atmosphere, so that the child can get through this stage healthily. This stage has a great influence on the future heterosexual communication, marriage and family relations.