What do you think of "Let's remarry and give our children a complete home" and "We will have a new home soon"?

"You only wash clothes and cook with children every day. What else can you do? " "Can you stop bothering me with trivial things every day?" "I've had enough of you. Look at yourself in the mirror. You are a slovenly housewife and a yellow-faced woman. I have no face to take you out. " This is the most vicious language a man can say to his wife. I hope you haven't heard it. I wish I had experienced it alone. Now finally reborn, with real happiness. I don't want to remember that nightmare.

My name is Huang Jing, and I'm thirty-five years old. Had a failed marriage and was a miserable woman. But I am also a lucky woman, because later, I met my real happiness. Married her ex-husband in her early twenties. My marriage with my ex-husband is a parent-led marriage, and there is no emotion in itself. But there was nothing I could do. I have to listen to my parents. After marriage, I also try my best to take care of my ex-husband's home. I think since I'm married, I should live a good life. Our relationship is neither good nor weak, just so so. I thought this was the end of our life, but who ever thought we couldn't reach the end?

After we got married, my ex-husband said I didn't work, I just needed to take care of my family. In this way, I became a full-time wife at home after marriage. Gave birth to a daughter for her ex-husband after marriage. But the ex-husband's family prefers boys to girls and doesn't like daughters. My in-laws don't like my daughter and me, and my ex-husband has a similar attitude. In-laws and ex-husbands also have many contradictions, especially with their mother-in-law. There are always quarrels at home, first I quarrel with my mother-in-law, and then I quarrel with my ex-husband. Later, my ex-husband and I always quarreled. My ex-husband has always disliked me here and there, and the distance between us is getting bigger and bigger. Later, we divorced.

When my daughter was five years old, my ex-husband fell in love with another woman and insisted on divorcing me. Our marriage was about to come to an end. If that happens again, our relationship will be completely broken, and then we will divorce. At the time of divorce, her ex-husband even gave up her daughter for that woman. I really thought he was cruel, but I also had to thank him. I'm really afraid that he will steal my daughter from me. What should I do? To tell the truth, I hate my ex-husband in my heart. I am heartless and cruel. I want to see how he gets what he deserves, thinking that he will remember my kindness and beg me one day, and then I will retaliate severely against him.

But as time went on, my hatred for my ex-husband gradually faded. I see. Whether he is good or not has something to do with me. I just need to live my life. Later, when I was 32 years old, I met my Zhang Peng, my present fiance. He is a warm and considerate person. He is good to me and good to his daughter. I think life will pass. I took precautions and accepted Zhang Peng. We are together. I feel safe with him, which I have never felt before. We have a good relationship, and I feel that he really loves me and my daughter. I am glad to meet such a man again, so that I can have real happiness.

By this year, we have been together for three years. Zhang Peng proposed to me. I was very excited and accepted his proposal. Just when I was excited, I was ready for happiness. The last person I want to see in my life came to me. My ex-husband came to me in tears, begging me to forgive him and telling me how much he missed me and my daughter during our divorce. I was really surprised, but I came to my senses and thought I was watching a joke. My ex-husband said to me, "Let's remarry and give our children a complete home." I just thought it was funny. At the beginning, he disliked us because he didn't give his children a complete home. Now come and beg me to give my child a complete home. What a cheek. Why should I remarry him? If I don't remarry him, I will give my daughter a complete home.

I sneered and said to my ex-husband, "We will have a new home soon". Don't bother, I will remarry soon, my daughter and I will have a new home soon, and we are very happy, which you can never give. You are not qualified to be a husband, much less a father. Who are you to ask our forgiveness now? You don't deserve it. After that, my ex-husband turned away silently and never came to see me again. It is said that he was dumped by that lover, and his money was cheated, leaving both people and money empty. I don't know what I feel in my heart. I am calm. Maybe this is God's punishment for him. It's good. As long as you don't disturb each other in the future.

Reply: Ms. Huang, you used to be unhappy. But now that you can have happiness again, I'm really happy for you. We should cherish this hard-won feeling and live a good life. The past has become a demon, and you can't chase it away. Forget the past, live a good life and embrace happiness.