There will always be some people in life who scoff at themselves. What should we do?

Learn to ignore others' gossip, cultivate firm willpower, and block others' mouths with success. There are all kinds of people in life, and we can't change others' personalities. Instead of fighting the pain all day, it is better to get rid of the pain from the heart and make your life easier. You should pay more attention to your inner world, cultivate firm willpower and pursue your goals unremittingly every day. When you have a successful career, others will flatter you instead.

First, self-reliance, so that others will respect you. My husband and I also came all the way in cynicism. When our family was particularly poor and my mother-in-law died, I resigned to take care of the baby. Seeing that my husband can't support his family, friends and relatives always sneer at us.

Later, after the children went to kindergarten, I found a decent job and our living standards improved. When I am rich, people who once looked down on me curry favor with me and let me see the cold and warm side of human feelings.

Second, in the face of those who see jokes, it is better to avoid them. In the face of those cold and mean people, it is better to ignore them than to directly conflict with them, so that you will be out of sight, out of mind and much more at leisure. Everyone's time is limited. If you spend a long time in all kinds of grievances, you will only waste time and accomplish nothing in the end. Spend more energy to achieve your goals and prove yourself with your achievements.

Third, since you can't change others, adjust your mentality. You can't shut everyone up when others look down on you. At this time, you might as well change your mind. No matter how others ridicule you, you can face life with an attitude of neither happiness nor sadness, and no one can control your mood. Abandon worldly troubles, then go into battle lightly and pursue your own life ideals. This will make life more meaningful, and fewer and fewer people will ridicule you.